Assalamu alaykum,
I have removed the Signature.. from Tilk's profile. It is not good to say that " "The majority of terrorists are muslims. But the majority of muslims are not terrorists."
because it is
not true.
Perhaps if a person is unaware of the situation in the world, and has a wharped view about what terrorism is, then this may be the conclusion.
The Reality, is quite different.
Please see here, about terrorism
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2368
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Secondly, the question is about the girl marrying without the Wali, and this is haram.
The Prophet
said:
"There is no marriage without the permission of a guardian." [Sunan of Abu Dawood 2080, Narrated Abu Musa]
The parents are important for both the man and the woman who wish to marry. For the girl, it is essential that her Wali marries her off, after making sure the man who marries her is a good Muslim. This is the general ruling, and is based upon the Qur'aan and Sunnah.
For such important matters, Scholars, need to be consulted with any individual cases etc.
assalamu alaykum