ShyHijabi
Junior Member
Salaam,
If I chose a husband significantly older than myself and one day had to "change his diapers" I would do it without complaint. Nothing is gauranteed, especialy not a long lifespan, and a younger husband can suffer a head injury that could disable him to such a degree.
That is what marriage is about, taking care of each other and protecting each other when the chips are down. My ex husband had a degenerative bone disease and had a double hip replacement. I had to help him to the shower and bathroom and it didn't bother me. Why? Because he would've done the same for me. (he was younger than me by the way) There is great reward when we perform sadaqa so in a way you are gaining no matter what.
Wasalaam
~Sarah
If I chose a husband significantly older than myself and one day had to "change his diapers" I would do it without complaint. Nothing is gauranteed, especialy not a long lifespan, and a younger husband can suffer a head injury that could disable him to such a degree.
That is what marriage is about, taking care of each other and protecting each other when the chips are down. My ex husband had a degenerative bone disease and had a double hip replacement. I had to help him to the shower and bathroom and it didn't bother me. Why? Because he would've done the same for me. (he was younger than me by the way) There is great reward when we perform sadaqa so in a way you are gaining no matter what.
Wasalaam
~Sarah