:salam2:
dear sister, do not ponder so much on the music issue first.
first, you need to take your shahadah ( testimony of faith ). then establish iman ( faith ) in your heart. then everything else will fall into place. insha'allah.
for example, when i really began trying to get serious with my islam; i used to be clean shaven. then as i growing more into it, i began to grow a goatee. but as my faith progressed more and more, i grew this big beard.
i know that there are sisters that never wore hijab, their faith increased and began wearing the hijab. then later on they read an ayah of the QUR'AN or a hadith and were touched by something and MASHA'ALLAH they began to wear the niqab. this was done because they were progressing in their deen.
you may not like or understand the reasoning with concerns to music now, but i can almost guarantee that when you begin to increase in your iman and deen, you will see why the ruling regarding most if not all music is the way that it is.
insha'allah you will be a muslim and a good one at that.