Need advice plese !

hassana elkoussi

Junior Member
:salam2: dear brothers & sisters. I was wondering if u could give me your advice please.
My husband is going to sacrifice sheep for the Eid inshaAllah. I know he's doing it on behalf of the family ,so does the ruling of not cutting hair or nails apply to me too ?

Will appreciate your advice and HAPPY EID inshaAllah:hijabi:
 

nasiruyola

Junior Member
:salam2: dear brothers & sisters. I was wondering if u could give me your advice please.
My husband is going to sacrifice sheep for the Eid inshaAllah. I know he's doing it on behalf of the family ,so does the ruling of not cutting hair or nails apply to me too ?

Will appreciate your advice and HAPPY EID inshaAllah:hijabi:

:salam2: SISTER,
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST BENEFICIENT, THE MOST MERCIFUL. MAY PEACE AND BLESSINGS OF ALLAH SUBHANAHU WATA'ALA BE HIS SERVANT AND MESSENGER.(MUHAMMAD BN ABDULLAH-ABUL QASIM) AMEEN.

THE PROHIBITIONS DID NOT APPLY TO YOU IT ONLY APPLIES TO THE ONE MAKING THE SACRIFICE. PLEASE READ BELW IS A RESPONSE BY Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz MAY ALLAH HAVE MERCY ON HIM. AMEEN.

http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/36567/sacrifice

What should be avoided by the one who wants to offer a sacrifice
Is it permissible for the one who wants to offer a sacrifice to cut his hair or nails?.


Praise be to Allaah.

Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

If anyone wants to offer a sacrifice, and the month of Dhu’l-Hijjah has begun, either because the new moon has been sighted or because thirty days of Dhu’l-Qa’dah have passed, then it is haraam for him to remove anything of his hair or nails or skin until he has slaughtered the sacrifice, because of the hadeeth of Umm Salamah (may Allaah be pleased with her), according to which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When you see the new moon of Dhu’l-Hijjah – according to another version, When the ten days (of Dhu’l-Hijjah) begin – and any one of you wants to offer a sacrifice, let him refrain (from cutting) his hair and nails.” Narrated by Ahmad and Muslim. According to another version, “Let him not remove anything from his hair and nails until he has offered the sacrifice.” And according to yet another version, “ He should not touch his hair or skin.”

If he forms the intention to offer the sacrifice during the first ten days of Dhu’l-Hijjah, then he should refrain from that from the moment he forms that intention, and there is no sin on him for anything he may have done before forming the intention.

The reason for this prohibition is that when the person who wants to offer the sacrifice joins the pilgrims in some of the rituals of Hajj – namely drawing closer to Allaah by slaughtering the sacrifice – he also joins him in some of the features of ihraam, namely refraining from cutting his hair etc.

This ruling applies only to the one who is going to slaughter the sacrifice. It does not apply to the one on whose behalf a sacrifice is offered, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “If any one of you wants to offer a sacrifice.” He did not say, “… is going to have a sacrifice offered on his behalf.” And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to offer the sacrifice on behalf of the members of his household, and it is not narrated that he told them to refrain from that (cutting their hair and nails etc).

Based on this, it is permissible for the family of the person who is going to offer the sacrifice to remove things from their hair, nails and skin during the first ten days of Dhu’l-Hijjah.

If the person who wants to offer the sacrifice does remove anything from his hair, nails or skin then he has to repent to Allaah and not do it again, but he does not have to offer any expiation, and that does not prevent him from offering the sacrifice as some of the common people think. If he does any of those things out of forgetfulness or ignorance, or some hair falls unintentionally, then there is no sin on him. If he needs to remove it then he may do so, and there is no blame on him, such as if a nail breaks and it annoys him, so he cuts it, or if a hair gets in his eye and he removes it, or he needs to cut his hair in order to treat a wound and the like.”



Fataawa Islamiyyah, 2/316.
 

hassana elkoussi

Junior Member
Gazak Allah khair , brother. May Allah grant u jannat Ferdaus.:tti_sister: Ameen
I was so worried about this, as i cut my nails this morning & when i remembered this, I thought I had committed a sin.Anyway, alhamdullilah & HAPPY EID
 

Toya23

Junior Member
Hi!!!

Hello!!
I am new to all of this so I hope this is not a foolish question. Why do Muslims sacrafice things during the month of Eid(what does it symbolize?) and why cant you cut your nails or your hair?

Thank you
 

Toya23

Junior Member
one more thing

I just re-read the answer and I saw this..'namely drawing closer to Allaah by slaughtering the sacrifice". Why does slaughtering an animal bring you closer to Allah?
Thanks again
 

*Sana*

.~.Slave of Allah.~.
Hello!!
I am new to all of this so I hope this is not a foolish question. Why do Muslims sacrafice things during the month of Eid(what does it symbolize?) and why cant you cut your nails or your hair?

Thank you

Assalamualaikum WaRahmatullahi WaBarakaatu,

The following has been taken from the link provided. I hope this answers your questions.

http://www.inter-islam.org/Actions/Qurbani.html

‘Udhiya’ is an Arabic word meaning "blood sacrifice", and ‘Qurbani’ is an Urdu and Persian word derived from the Arabic word "Qurban" which literally means an act performed to seek Allah’s pleasure. It is technically used for the sacrifice of an animal slaughtered for the sake of Allah.

The sacrifice of an animal has always been a recognised form of worship in many religions, but in the ‘Shariah’ (Islamic sacred law) of our beloved Prophet the sacrifice of an animal has been recognised as a from of worship only during the three days of the month Zulhijjah, namely the 10th, 11th, and 12th .

Allah Ta’ala says in the Noble Quran:

"Verily, We have granted you (O Muhammad ) Al- Kauthar (a river in paradise),

So pray on to thy lord and sacrifice. For he who makes you angry will be cut off."

(Surah 10
"And the camels! We have appointed them among the ceremonies of Allah, therein ye have good!"
Of all of the physical and spiritual worships the greatest is ‘salaah’, and among the worships concerning wealth, sacrifice holds a distinguished position, because the original spirit of sacrifice was to sacrifice the soul. The replacement of an animal was made due to some reasons, as it is clear from the story of Hazrat Ibrahim and Hazrat Ismail . That is why in other places in the Quran the mention of ‘salaah’ is made together with ‘Qurbani’. (Tafseer-E-Usmaani)


WHAT IS THE ORIGIN OF ‘QURBANI’?

This act of ‘Udhiya’ is to commemorate the unparalleled sacrifice offered by the Prophet Ibrahim . When he, in pursuance to a command of Allah Ta’ala conveyed to him in a dream, prepared himself to slaughter his beloved son Ismail and actually did so, but Allah Almighty after testing him of his submission, sent down a ram and saved his son from the logical fate of slaughter. It is from that time onwards that the sacrifice of an animal became an obligatory duty to be performed by every well to do Muslim.
Concerning this incident the Glorious Quran says:

"And when he attained the age of running with him (Ibrahim), he said: "O my son verily I have seen in a dream that I am slaughtering thee, so look, considerest thou?" He said: "O my father! Do that which thou art commanded, thou shalt find me, Allah willing, of the patients."

"Then when the two submitted themselves and had prostrated him on his temple."

"We cried unto him: "O Ibrahim! Of a surety thou hast fulfilled the vision. Verily We! That was a trial manifest. And We ransomed him with a mighty victim. And We left for him among the posterity. Peace be unto Ibrahim. Verily We! Thus we compense the well doers. Verily he was one of Our believing bondsmen." (37:102-111)
Thus this very incident is also the origin of ‘Takbeer-e-Tashreeq’.

Eminent jurispudents have stated that the origin of the ‘Takbeer-e-Tasreeq’ is when the Prophet Ibrahim made Hazrat Ismail lie down, Allah ordered Hazrat Jibraeel to take along a ‘fidyah’(ransom) and when Hazrat Jibraeel arrived there, he feared that Hazrat Ibrahim would slaughter Ismail and so he began shouting "Allah Akbar, Allah Akbar."

Hearing his voice, Prophet Ibrahim took it as a glad tiding and exclaimed, "Laa ilaaha allallahu wallahu akbar."

Hazrat Ismail also came to know that the ‘fidyah’ arrived and he got up saying, "Allahu akbar wa lillahil hamd," and began to eulogise and thank Allah.


WHAT IS THE PHILOSOPHY OF ‘QURBANI’?


Mufti Muhammad Taqi Uthmaani states that the philosophy behind ‘Udhiya’ is that it is a demonstration of total submission to Allah and a proof of complete obedience to Allah’s will or command. When a Muslim offers a ‘Udhiya’ this is exactly what he intends to prove. Thus, the ‘Udhiya’ offered signifies that he is a slave of Allah at his best. And that he would not hesitate even for a moment once he receives an absolute command from his Creator to surrender before it, to obey it willingly, even if it be at the price of his life and possessions.
This is exactly what the Prophet Ibrahim did.

Apparently, there was no reason why a father should slaughter his innocent son. But, when the command came from Allah, he never asked the reason to that command, nor did he hesitate to obey it.

This is the true philosophy of ‘Qurbani’.


VIRTUES OF ‘QURBANI’ (UDHIYAH)

The virtues of ‘Udhiya’ are established from the following ‘Ahadith’ (Traditions).

Hazrat Anas reported that the Messenger of Allah sacrificed with his own hands, two white rams with black markings. He took the name of Allah and recited ‘Takbir’. Hazrat Anas states that he saw him putting his foot upon their buttocks and saying: "In the name of Allah. And Allah is the greatest". (Sahih Bukhari ,Sahih Muslim)

Note: We learn from this Hadith that one should try to make sacrifice with his own hands. If the Prophet can sacrifice by his own blessed hands at the age of sixty, why can’t our young generation follow in his footsteps? If one cannot do so, he should at least be present at the time of slaughter.

Hazrat Jaber reported that the Messenger of Allah slaughtered on the day of sacrifice two horned, white and black castrated rams. When he faced them towards the Qibla, he said: "Verily I turn my face towards the One who created the heavens and the earth, upon the religion of Abraham, being upright, and I am not one of the polytheists. Verily my prayer, my life and my death are all for Allah, the Lord of the worlds. There is on partner with him and I have been ordered that, and I am one of the Muslims. O Allah, it is Thine and for Thee, from Muhammad and his Ummah: In the name of Allah. Allah is the greatest". He then slaughtered the rams. (Ahmed, Abu Daud, Ibne Majah)

Hazrat Ayesha radiyallahu anha reports that the Apostle of Allah said, "The son of Adam does not perform any actions on the day of sacrifice which is more pleasing to Allah than the shedding of blood. He will come on the day of resurrection with its hair, horns and hooves, and the blood certainly will fall in a place near Allah before it falls on the ground. So, make yourselves purified there with. (Tirmizi, Ibn Majah)

Hazrat Zaid bin Arkam reports that the Companions of Rasulullah asked him: " Ya Rasulullah, what is this sacrifice?" He said: "it is the way of your fore father Ibrahim ." They asked: what (reward) is for us therein?" He replied: "There is a reward for every hair (i.e. the reward for meat and useful parts of the animal’s body will be very lofty in merit, but there will also be a great reward for the parts which are useless and thrown away such as the hair)."

They asked: "For the wool, Ya Rasulullah?" He replied: "There is one reward for every strand of wool." (Ahmed, Ibn Majah).

Hope that helps.

Wasalaam :)
 

yameenahmed

Junior Member
Umarah bin sayyad reported that ,Ata bin yasar informed him on hearing from Abu Ayyub ansari[ra] who said: we used to sacrifice a sheep on our own behalf of the whole household;later on, as a matter of pride each man began to sacrifice a sheep
[THIRMIDHI,IBN MAJA,MUWATTA]
so i think it will apply to all the people who are in family but i do accept shaik ibn bazz
 

Tru3m0sl3m

Brother in ISLAM
Assalamu 'alaykum
I asked a sheikh about the same topic and he told me about the above hadith and refrain from cutting the hair, nails and skin but i doubt the bolded lines. I'll try to get more information later InshaALLAH!
:salam2:
 

allah is with me

Rabana Wa laqal Hamd
salam

:salam2:
sister you have to cut the nail ..on this eid ..because it one of the part of in purity growing it

:salam2:
 
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