salam alaykum sister hina.
am sorry sister for has happened to u, but however its only to make u stronger and to make u understand that this is only dunya. and that u should not b 2 attach to anything.
sister i totally disagree with the idea that ur husband said out of extreme anger, coz if he did, he would've said it straight unlike the way he said it
My hubby said THAT'S IT, THE PROBLEM IN THIS HOUSE IS HINA, SO, HINA I AM GIVING YOU DIVORCE, TALAAK TALAAK TALAAK!
he had time to accuse you of being the problem, he was fed up with what was going on so he took the way out.
he was fully aware of what he was saying. but bcoz u love him so much ur trying to justify him.
ur saying that u understand y he did not do anything when ur father in law beat u so bad that u were hospitalized for 2 weeks.
UR PARENTS ARE NOT GOD in islam ALLAH SUBHANA WA TA ALA comes first followed by the our beloved messenger MUHAMMED PBUH. also ALLAH SWTA says in the Qur'an that u should STAND FOR JUSTICE EVEN IF ITS AGAINST UR FAMILY, FRIENDS also URSELF. not matter how much u love ur parents u should stop them from committing haram. do u think that if his father beat it him up he would just allow it, would he not run away or done something else to stop it. if yes then he should made u run away coz u n him a married couple r 1. whatever for him is for u.
ur parents r important, however if their actions, thoughts or say is against ur creator then u have to go against it, it is HARAAMMMM for u not 2.
Also u need to think about, what if it was ur father who beat him up would have just stood there and let it happen, or would u have tried to stop it. from what am picking up 4m u am sure that u would have tried to stop it, in that case should u not be with someone who loves less then u love them.
u should always try to b with someone who is the like of u, if he let's u get beats and u wouldn't then ur way toooooooo good for him.
however i do think he loves u a bit but nothing compare to the way u do. u cannot change someone or make them feel like u do. if it does not come on its own.
sister do follow the advice that were given to u do istikharah, coz sometimes something else might be planned for u.
also remember that they are plenty of other brothers out there, just bcoz ur a divorcee it does not mean that ur never going to find someone, in good time u will show interest in others, unless u stop urelf from it.
am 21 years old and a divorcee i also have a 3 month old baby, and i already had a proposal. not from some old lonely guy, but by a brother whose actually younger then me and that has a job. and its not coz he feels sorry for me, coz he did know that am a divorcee and that i had a baby until i told him, after that he thought about it and still wanted. even though am not interested in getting married at the moment it just proves that there always someone out there who'll want u. do not think that he is ur only hope. remember do not place all hopes on a human for it is committing shirk, ALLAH SWTA will bring u someone who is right for u however all in good times.
i truely hope the best for u my sister.
the climbing up a mountain is always hard, but the descend is always easy. ur test will end well Insha ALLAH.
