Im confused right now ny emotion are goin crazy.
My husband spend all this week end with his friend never home, he comes back late i spend all my day home cleaning cookin and its bother me that he doesnt even eat. I think he is on a website for meeting people some times i think that he is cheating on me. Im very insecure i dnt knw what to do or think hr said he never cheat what should i do?
My friend just told me that she needs help but i dnt want to give her a wrong advice help mee plzzzz
Assalam 'Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
I am not married yet, so it might not be most appropriate for me to advice on this matter. That is why when I saw it first, I also waited to see if a married brother or sister may answer.
Anyway, with Allah's help, let me mention what I suggest to your friend.
1. Make a lots of Du'a to Allah and ask to make your marriage life trustful. It is the strongest weapon of Muslims.
2. Welcome husband with a huge smile on your face and greet him with Assalam 'Alaikum, and address him with a sweet name which he likes. This will inshaAllah increase love between you.
3. Try to remember the food he liked most. If you know how to make it, prepare if for him. If you do not know, try to find recipes from relevant websites or books, and prepare if for him.
4. Give him a surprise when he comes home, and keep your concerns to be discussed later when you both have a pleasing environment for a good discussion.
5. Listen to each other, and do not raise voice even if he speak wrong or illogical. Be calm and remember Allah is the ONLY source of strength.
InshaAllah if your friend try her best as above, I do believe both can discuss about it very well and can find a solution together, and can remove any existing doubts.
Remember the little trick. A huge smiley welcome, and a delicious food he loves most, and do not mention about any concerns until the best time.
Once again, I am waiting for the replies of others.
Wassalam 'Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
