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[IslamIsLight]

Assalamu aleikum brothersnand sisters,
I need an advice,or may be i should ask the advice of Imam ,I don't know.
I been away from my parents for 4 years.I went to a foreign country and converted to islam.My parents still do not accept that.But i always miss them and feel so guilty that I'm so far and cannot take care of them,but I know if i go back to my country everybody will be against me and espessialy my parents,they will not let me to put hijab.I have my other brother with them ,but I am far.
I feel so terribly guilty. I cannot even sleep .I only pray to Allah to forgive them and to forgive me and to take care of them ,because I cannot even go visit them and only Allah knows when I will be able to do so.

Salam

 

[justoneofmillion]

assalamu aleikum sister, i hope things go well for you inschallah put your trust in Allah swt he won`t let you down be strong because everyone of us is doing his part of jihad i guess we should feel lucky think about for example our brothers who are in jail everywhere across the world being tortured think about our brothers and sisters in palestine , kashmir, chechenya, bosnia that we watch on tv who do not even know the luxury of having parents or a home think about the children in Africa who are dying from malaria ,cancer ,aids, hunger,i know that it might sound strange to you that am telling you about these things but find your strength somehow we are really lucky muslims you know!alhamdulillah i hope things get better with your parents be nice to them and show them love and respect in any case and try to do dawah to them may be who knows? because no one can take your faith and conviction away from you! let us know how things evolve then do not be sad may Allah ease your pain and make it easy for you inschallah i must admit that you are pretty courageous hey mashallah!DASVEDANIA


wassalam

sindbad

 

[Mrmuslim]

Assalamu aleikum brothersnand sisters,
I need an advice,or may be i should ask the advice of Imam ,I don't know.
I been away from my parents for 4 years.I went to a foreign country and converted to islam.My parents still do not accept that.But i always miss them and feel so guilty that I'm so far and cannot take care of them,but I know if i go back to my country everybody will be against me and espessialy my parents,they will not let me to put hijab.I have my other brother with them ,but I am far.
I feel so terribly guilty. I cannot even sleep .I only pray to Allah to forgive them and to forgive me and to take care of them ,because I cannot even go visit them and only Allah knows when I will be able to do so.

Salam

salaam alikom sister,

May Allah help you and make it easy on you, I know how dose it feel to be far from parents specially when they getting older, Allah help them try to invite them to where you @ may be when the sourrounding is different they will try to understand your decission, most of the time they are against the Islam just because the people around them are against Islam, may be if you bring them where you @ and take them to different Mosques and meet other Muslims then inshallah they will under stand, remember the manners of a Muslim show the non Muslim and attract them more to Islam.

Allah Help you and make it easy on you inshallah and guide your family with his mercy.

Wa salaam Alikom