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    salam every one,

    i'm tooooomuch in big trouble hwo listen me pray for mei need pray for every one 222222 much myhusband beating me 3 daysvery badly by belt by every thing bcoz of his brother wife complain it's misunderstand but husband not exceting anyreason and the thing is very small i'm not arabic he is arabic he is dealing v badly from three days i'mlaying on floor hot tea whatevercoming his hand throughing me.my body can't suffer toooo much pain now bcoz now heis beating on my wounds he is saying me i'll beat u till u died her he removed my niqab infornt of his borther i put my hand on his brother wife foot to forgive me butshe want every and complain about me i'mtaking care her 22222much but she make story by her way i try too expalin shedenied and husband not listing me i can't go my country becoz i have no brother father daied my lifedepending on me my educated and i'm also if i'll take divorce no one get married my sisters andi'm worry about her health now he went for duty so i;m writing and from tomarrow till friday he have holiday he'll take me his family home and beat me there plz plz i'm vvvv big trouble pray for me d'll die i have no other option if he'll divorce me where i'll go mymother toooomuch if she listen he give divorece she died i'meducated i dont about this country any no place for goning plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzpray for me
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    Dont worry

    Dear Sister,

    May the Almighty Allah be with you. Which country do you reside? You may go to the court. since you cant take divorce right now, try to take help of your neighbors if possible. The person will definitely have the punishment from the Lord for doing this. Dont worry all brother and sisters are with you. Let us all know if anything further hapens.
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    :salam2:

    I am very saddened but what i hear. My advice is for you to go to the mosque and seek an imam's help immediately.

    I will make dua for you , inshAllah
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    sis it made me cry when i red yor story...the best we can do for you is pray for you "May Allah SW protectz you from them, one thing you have 2 remember is allah is with yo all the time n he's watchin over you. evrythin happenz by his permission all you have 2 do is to believe n keep in yor mind that Allah is with yo n as sum of the brotherz said seek imamz n scholerz help if there are any near where yo live n inshaAllah we pray for yo.

    Wasalamu 3alaikum WW
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    Sister I will pray with you,
    Check in your local mosque if there is an Imam that could defend you.
    One of the best Dua you can make in this situation is to say Allah you know the trouble I am in plz help me.
    But one of the reasons Allah does this to us is to here our Dua's.
    I'm not sure if this is exactly what the hadith says but here goes:
    The angels go to Allah and ask him, there is a person seeking your help and making dua for you should we answer him. Allah says: Not now, I like to here my abd { (slave in arabic) Meening worshiper } praying to me.
    I may have mixed up a little stuff. But I think you know what I mean
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    why dont u go to any humanity right or any woman rights club or something like this. try to complain there, they can also arrange something for u.
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    بِسۡمِ ٱللهِ ٱلرَّحۡمَـٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ

    Asalama aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu my sister am sorry to see you in this horribel situation.This is not islam beating ones wife ,its things like this that turn people away from islam. The only advice i can give you is leave him once he starts beating you he wont stop its like he own you(SLAVE) . I know divorce is the last option but there is a limit for everything . Its ALLAH (SWT) that will sustain you inshALLAH. Its ALLAH (SWT) that brought you where you are now .Am sorry once again may ALLAH (SWT) protect you .

    Asalama aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu
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    dear sister, it breaks my heart to hear a story like this. i hope you will have the courage to get out of this situation and seek help at the masjid or with a neighbour at least. you are in our du'aa and may your situation be eased very soon, Insha Allah.
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    go to the police. or mosque.

    i will make dua.inshallah.
    :salam2:
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    where are you from sister ?
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    Salamalaykum,

    very very sad to hear about u sister, may Allah give the best of here and hereafter. Ameen. Sister as brothers mention u can go Mosque for help if not then u can go for human right, womens right, may Allah help u sister.

    Allah Hafiz.
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    salam sister, you can't stay with him. you have to leave anywhere to your family. sister you are in my duas.
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    Salaam sister,

    I hope this finds you well, I see you've visited TTI since posting this message yet haven't posted any responses, this is very concerning. You mentioned something about not being able to divorce your husband due to social pressure (something about your sister and mother) but you have to leave him.

    This man sounds extremely dangerous and needs to be locked up in jail where he cannot hurt someone else. What if you end up pregnant? Are you willing to bring your children into such a dangerous house? Where they may be beaten or killed? Divorce is allowed in Islam as well protecting yourself from harm. As a matter of fact it is obligatory to protect yourself from avoidable harm.

    You need to go to a women's shelter or back to family and seperate yourself from this man. Do not delay, you said he away on holiday this weekend so pack your stuff and go. Don't tell him where you are going because that will just enable him to come after you. There really is no ther advise that I see being helpful right now, as it apparent you are in clear and present danger. Get out now.

    Wasalaam

    ~Sarah
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    :salam2:I hope that Allah help you insha`Allah
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    Sister,

    i hate HATE HATE these things. Violence ISN'T ISLAM an your husband is a sinner.

    My advice is turn to the mosque or the police and tell them about your violence.

    I'm nothing that a simple faithful, but these things BURN me MUCH in heart: if you want, i will accept to be your champion and i will challenge this cruel man to duel, for free you, then, you will be freed and then choice your life, come to your family or whatever you want.

    Please write me if you accept me as champion: i dislike COWARDS that beat womens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he will have the heart to confront a MAN???

    Allah (SWT) forgive me, is the first time i rage so much...i was peaceful and reflexive but COWARDLY and BEATING WOMENS is a thing that give me a lion heart!
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    Put your trust in Allah Ta Alla sister, please. Have faith and belief in him no matter what, and he'll be there to help you when you call unto him.

    A very sad story. The same instance happened last year with a Pakistani brother who use to be here on TTI. He found a person to marry a sister who just converted to Islam, but that idiot guy ended up beating her up, and once he even started beating her up in the car with her child (probably from both of them) strapped to the back seat.

    It just hurts to hear about something like this happening to someone else, it's like as if I wish I could just have had that tragety happening to me instead of seing another helpless brother or sister going through it.

    But I shall make dua for you sister, Ya Ukhti. And you also have two choices sister: You can either ask Allah Ta Alla to punish him severely, or you can ask Allah TA Alla to guide him. These are your choices, but remember sister, the Abode of the Arrogant is going to be Jahanam.

    And never go down and touch a person's feet sister. Even if it's his brother's darn wife. Because no matter how much pain you go through, doing something like this to forgive you never makes you feel better, and it usually doesn't help. It also makes them (the arrogant ones) to become feel more migher and better that they're making you beg on the floor.

    Stay strong sister, and leave your your full trust and your problems and affairs in Allah Ta Alla sister, because that's the heart of a Muslimah. Strength. Strength in their heart, Eman, Love, and Hope in Allah Ta Alla makes you be Unique, and it helps you stay strong, no matter what you go through.

    It's actaully Haram to beg someone like that or to put your hea dclose to their fet, but I understand sister, and Allah Ta Alla knows it more, that you had to do it because you were being oppressed and forced to do it. But Allah Ta Alla forgives Muslims for two sins, That which they do out of not knowing (that they have ben doing something bad), and that which they are forced to do."

    And May Allah Ta Alla take care of you sister, Assalamu Alykum, Jazakallah Kyr, Barakallahu Feek, and may Allah Ta Alla give you a rightous and pious husband who loves you dearly, Ameen.
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    Mashallah brother, you have a great heart. Your heart is in the righ tplace, and that's all that matters, even if you can't beat this guy up.

    But still brother, making dua to Allah Ta Alla still helps, and that's the best weapon. And trusting in Allah Ta Alla is the best way for victory, like how the Muslims won Uhud, even though they were clsoe to losing.

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    And may Allah Ta Alla reward you for your heart and your Intention brother, Ameen.
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    Brother Abdul Hasib,

    also if i trust sincerely in Allah (SWT) i fear this woman will die under this man beatings, despite her heavy faith.

    Faith is strong, but the body is the body, and you know that womens are frailer that mens.

    Really, i have fear for her: is better that she seek police or authority protection and flee, sure she not do a sin to flee from an evil man.

    Maybe im too much worried, but hope you understand myself and my feelings about this thing: i know what mean be beaten....trust me, i know how one feel when is beaten.:(
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    why dont you go to the police or tell an imam
    he may be able to explain to your husband why he shouldn't beat you
    i will make dua for you inshallah:wasalam:
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    salam
    ahh.its realy sad.
    it brought tears in my eyes.
    does it happen still in this world??
    its realy sad.
    but if i had been on ur place i would have taken divource.
    u r in my duas.
    may ALLAH bless u n guid ur husband.amin sumamin
    if u need any kind of help just pm me.
    u r in our duas.
    FI AMANILLAH
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