Question about marriage.........

Muslimah-S

Muslimah-S

Seek The Almighty
:salam2: sister Tree,
May Allah Tala ease you situation and dispose your affairs for you in the right way,ameen.
Do lots of dua and trust Allah.

Allah Tala says in interpretation meaning:

"Whoever fears Allah, He will prepare for him a way out and provide for him from whence he least expects it. And whoever places his trust in Allah, Allah is sufficient for him.” [ Sûrah al-Talâq : 2-3]

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports the Prophet (peace be upon him) to have said,
"There are three people whom Allah will surely help:
a warrior in the cause of Allah,
a slave who wants to free himself by a payable contract
and whoever seeks chastity by marriage."

[Narrated by At- Tirmidhi]

:wasalam::hijabi:
 
fada_all

fada_all

Junior Member
Tree2008 said:
Salam sister......

Forgive me but even though I have heard this before it also has me confused because if we Muslims are not supposed to be intermingling or even speaking to each other how in the world could we fall in love with each other? It makes sense if we do fall in love with another Muslim we should marry as soon as we are able to but if we are following the sunnah in the right way it means we wouldnt fall in love because we wouldnt have any kind of contact other than what is necessary so there would be no way to fall in love.
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salam alikum wa rahmatu allah taala wa barakatuh sister Isra,

i understand you here , but i assure you that love comes after marriage and of course this is the real love !!!!!:ma: because it is hala love and allah swt bless both partners with His mercy , and then will become a strong love ...believe dear ukhtii i never konw my husband before but but we both love each other alhamduliallah ...so don't be confused ukhtii just follow allah's instruction and He swt will pave you the way to achieve all what you want

ur sis khaidja
 
~Ali_

~Ali_

Fixing da foundation
Assalamaulaikum sister - I think its time you:

a) got outta town
b) got outta town

I mean serioulsy if you reckon your local Muslim community isnt really that great... its time you went elsewhere because theres no use for you staying there - you could perhaps come back one day and make the area flourish?

and I like the others here - am not telling you to pick up and move out like ASAP but over a small period of time - and take small steps towards the bigger picture - because you can be horribly limited if your community isnt all that great...

May Allah grant you patience and strength in these difficult times - ameen.
 
Safiyah_

Safiyah_

Junior Member
Some muslimas i know told me that you aren't supposed to know the man you marry. Because you aren't allowed to meet men. That's why i am confused. :)

But am glad to hear that you can marry out of love 2 :)
 
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