Respect

[Aapa]

Salaam,


It is time to think of who we are. I have seen responses to posts that are so rude I am ashamed to be on the same forum.

There has been a tone of responses that are not Islamic. It is time to grow up. The immaturity level must have hit 100.

We are in Ramadan. We must act like Muslims.

First, none of us is an expert. So do not give fatawa. Do not get haughty. And I am speaking to female members, too. All I read is how someone else is wrong and you are right.

This is against the prinicples of Islam.

I urge you to stop.

 

[TheHumbleWun]

Asalaam'alikum sister Mirajmom,

Your post has come in a perfect time! It's astonishing to see people disrespect others on this forum; it's happening almost every day. We must watch our language. Tone is very important. We have to be sensitive in many ways. My math teacher always use to say "engage your brain before you put your mouth into gear."

Ramadan Mubarak to you and your family.

 

[farhopes]

Assalamo alikom

Dear Aapa,

I have found that it is easy for one to be rude, ruthless and inconsiderate. Lol, simply because it needs no effort. It appeals to the soul or " Nafs". And it is difficult to be thoughtful, merciful and considerate. This needs big effort, struggle against the vulgarity and rudness of " Nafs". It is not easy to stop oneself hurting those who teased us or even said something that is not identical to what we think.

I always think that our real challenge as Muslim is to refine and rectify our conduct. To struggle against the evil, rudeness and niggardliness of our souls is the true striving of Muslim in this life.

That is why the Prophet, peace be upon him said " The best amongest you are those who have good morals" May Allah help us purify our souls to be among those who come to Him with sound hearts.

 

[Living Soul]

:salam2:

I agree with you that this forum is to be used as a platform on which muslims can get in touch any time and feel free to ask any question regarding Islam. Being on this forum I feel myself as a responsible muslimah who has duty to consider the fellow muslims problems and make lots of duas for all. Its a kind of muslim family forum where every one is concerned about others by lending helping hand whereever possible. I pray to Allah SWT to guide us to promote this forum possitively according to the principles of Islam Ameen.

 

[mymohsin]

Salamalaykum,

I agree with it. Jazak Allah for this reminder Appa and My apology to all if anyone get hurted or annoyed in anyways by words please do forgive me for the sake of Allah.

Jazak Allah.

 

[shaheeda35]

:salam2:

So well said, mashallah. We should be considerate of one anothers feelings, there is no right or wrong, lets grow up. Think before you click, is this really what I want to say? Is this going to hurt someones feelings? We are in Ramadan, but no lessons are being taught from it. What are we doing?

Jazakallahu Khairan for this reminder dear sister.