Ruling on Congratulating the disbelievers on their Christmas celebration?

Salem9022

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Responding to Merry Christmas by Sheik Uthaymeen

Question: What is the ruling on congratulating the disbelievers on their Christmas celebration? And how do we respond to them if they greet us with it. And is it permissible to go to the places where they are having celebrations for that purpose. And does the person (Muslim) take a sin if he does the aforementioned without any intent? Rather he only does it being courteous, or due to shyness or due to being put in an awkward situation, or due to some other reasons. And is it permissible to resemble them in this?

Answer: Congratulating the disbelievers on their Christmas celebration or other than that from their religious holidays is not permissible according to the consensus. As was related by Ibn Al Qayim, may ALLAH have mercy upon him, in his book “The ruling on the people beneath the Muslim protection”, when he said: As for congratulating the disbelievers for their religious ceremonies that have kufr (disbelief) attached to it, then it is not permissible according to the consensus. For example congratulating them for their holidays or their fasts, so the person says, “May you have a bless holiday”, or he wishes them well for their holiday or something like that. So this, if the one who says it escapes from falling into kufr (disbelief), is(still) from the impermissible things. And it is on the same level as congratulating them for prostrating to the cross. Rather it is a greater sin with ALLAH. And it is a more severe abomination than to congratulate them for drinking alcohol and killing someone, committing illegal sexual intercourse and things of this nature. And many of the people who don’t have any deen(or respect for the deen) fall into this. And he doesn’t know the ugliness (evil) of what he has done. So whoever congratulates a person for committing sins, or innovations, or disbelief, then he has exposed himself to the hate, wrath (anger) of ALLAH. –End of the Sheik’s (Ibn Al Qayim) speech may ALLAH have mercy upon him--

(Sheik Uthamin continues)

So congratulating the disbelievers on the religious holidays is not permissible, as shown by the proof brought by Ibn Al Qayim. Because in it, (congratulating the kufar on their religious holidays) is an approval for what they are upon from their kufr ceremonies, and showing them that you are please with it. Even if the person is not pleased with the actual kufr itself, it is also not permissible for the Muslim to be pleased with kufr ceremonies, or to congratulate them for it. Because ALLAH the Exalted is not pleased with that, as ALLAH the Exalted says, “If you disbelieve, then verily, ALLAH is not in need of you, He likes not disbelief for His slaves. And if you are grateful (by being believers), He is pleased therewith for you.” (chapter 39 verse 7) And the Exalted says, “This day, I have perfected your religion for you, completed My Favor upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion.” (Chapter 5 verse 3) So congratulating them with this is haram whether this person is your co worker or not.

So if they greet us with their holiday greeting we don’t respond to them with it, because it’s not our holiday, and they are holidays that ALLAH is not pleased with, and because it is something that is either innovated in their religion, or it was legislated but has since been abrogated by the deen of Islam that which Muhammad peace and blessing be upon him, was sent with to all of the creation. And He (ALLAH) says about it (Islam) “And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers” (Chapter 3 verse 85)

And for the Muslim to accept their invitations to these occasions (holiday celebrations) is haram. (Impermissible) Because this is worst than congratulating them with it, because this would entail participating with them in this. Also it is haram for the Muslim to imitate the disbelievers by establishing celebrations for these occasions, or to exchanges gifts, or to distribute sweets, or trays of food, or to stop work or anything like this. Due to the statement of the Prophet, peace and blessing be upon him, “Whoever imitates a people is from them”. Shaykh of Islam Ibn Taymia said in his book, Follow the straight path and oppose the path to the fire,“Imitating them in some of their celebration causes happiness in their hearts for what they are upon from false hood. And it is possible that this might encourage them to take advantage of this opportunity to humiliate the weak minded”. –End of his (Shaykh Ibn Taymia) speech. May ALLAH have mercy upon him.

And whoever does anything from this is a sinner. And it is the same whether he did it being courteous, or seeking friendship, or due to shyness, or any other reason, because this is from being deceitful in the deen of ALLAH. And this is from the reasons that reinforce the psyche of the disbelievers and to make them proud of their deen.


http://www.ibnothaimeen.com/all/khotab/article_232.shtml
 

Janaan

ربنا اغفر لنا ذنوبنا
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Wow! that's true. Jazakallah for sharing. May ALLAH SWT BLESS YOU!!
 

al-fajr

...ism..schism
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Assalamu'alaykum

JazakAllaah Khayr, so really one shouldnt even say 'have a good holiday' or 'time off' cos really we know they're just taking the time off to binge drink and indulge in the haraam so we shouldn't be hoping they have a good one (hadn't thought of it that way ..I just refrained from saying have a good ''christmas'')

I'm really disappointed, I received two christmas cards this year ..I got it down to one last year, which was good.

Any ruling on being given cards on kafir celebrations like Christmas and New year? Normally theyre just thrown out, unopened. Is it haraam to take them?

What if they post them to you?!
 

Al-Kashmiri

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Assalamu'alaykum

JazakAllaah Khayr, so really one shouldnt even say 'have a good holiday' or 'time off' cos really we know they're just taking the time off to binge drink and indulge in the haraam so we shouldn't be hoping they have a good one (hadn't thought of it that way ..I just refrained from saying have a good ''christmas'')

I'm really disappointed, I received two christmas cards this year ..I got it down to one last year, which was good.

Any ruling on being given cards on kafir celebrations like Christmas and New year? Normally theyre just thrown out, unopened. Is it haraam to take them?

What if they post them to you?!

As-salaamu `alaykum

Allaah knows best, good thing you raised this though. Perhaps you should contact a Shaykh. If it really bothers you, you can always put the post, unopened, back in the postbox and Royalmail should mark it "undelivered". But it's easier to trash them.
 

al-fajr

...ism..schism
Staff member
^ It really does bother me, maybe I'm over reacting about it, Allaahu'alem.

Id rather be blind to the pagan practises of the season completely. I think I will continue to throw them away rather than put them in the postbox though.

InshaAllaah khayr. I think speaking to the person who posts them (again!) will serve as a longer term solution to the issue, if she cares to listen inshaAllaah.

Wa-alaykum salaam.
 

Al-Kashmiri

Well-Known Member
Staff member
^ It really does bother me, maybe I'm over reacting about it, Allaahu'alem.

Id rather be blind to the pagan practises of the season completely. I think I will continue to throw them away rather than put them in the postbox though.

InshaAllaah khayr. I think speaking to the person who posts them (again!) will serve as a longer term solution to the issue, if she cares to listen inshaAllaah.

Wa-alaykum salaam.

As-salaamu `alaykum

It bothers me too, from another angle. The number of Muslim families I know are looking forward to also having a feast on the 25th. I always try to tell some family members that it is clear imitation and celebration, and they say that they're not celebrating Christmas! But yet, by defintion of 'celebration' in English and `Eid in Arabic, the minute they take on a convention or few related to Christmas, repeating it yearly, they're celebrating, and Allaah knows best. I'm always told this time of the year that I'm just being silly and not using my head.

As for cards, then I rather have the post than some carol singers. So look at the bright side, I get singers, you only get cards.

Was-salaam
 

DanyalSAC

Junior Member
Ok this one is gonna be strange -

What about holiday pay? My company pays us for the 25th, whether we work it or not (and I don't work it this year, my work week is Sunday through Thursday, so I will technically be getting 6 days paid this week).

Is this haram for me to accept this pay for a haram "holiday"? I didn't get it for Eid al Adha (which was also on a Friday this year)...
 

shaheeda35

strive4Jannah
:salam2:
:ma:very beneficial information. What do you do when they say "happy holidays" to you? How do you respond to them without being disrespectful to them? Just wondering, mashallah.

Jazakallahu Khairan for sharing!:hijabi:
 

DanyalSAC

Junior Member
:salam2:
:ma:very beneficial information. What do you do when they say "happy holidays" to you? How do you respond to them without being disrespectful to them? Just wondering, mashallah.

Jazakallahu Khairan for sharing!:hijabi:

Someone asked our shakyh this after his lecture on Saturday. He told us to just say "thank you".
 
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