should i ask my imam about marriage during ramadan?

[nyerekareem]

:salam2:

i have a question about marriage proposals. well i have been seeking a wife for some time now, and for a few months there had been someone that i had been considering for marriage, but in the end she didn't think we had chemistry, whatever that means. as we all know, we are in the month of ramadan, but i wanted to know if it would be proper for me, during this holy month to ask my imam if he's aware of any sisters seeking marriage or should i wait for ramadan to be over first? i ask these questions because i don't know about the etiquettes of marriage proposals and the like, during ramadan.

i'm 27 years old and i'm trying to complete my deen with marriage. i've been lowering my gaze like crazy and fasting too. but it's been extremely difficult for me. it's weird that the haram is such an easy way out, while the halal is much more of a challenge. it's an uphill battle that will bring success inshAllah. i'm just shy to ask my imam.

 

[ScotsMuslim]

Brother.. be patient... do dua to Allah and inshAllah my brother u will find the right wife... jus have patience.. as Allah the Almighty LOVES people who are patient and inshAllah u will get the best if u jus wait! concentrate on bettering urself.. loveing the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and Allah.. and inshAllah jus watch.. Allah will bless u with everything u do dua for...

 

[nyerekareem]

Brother.. be patient... do dua to Allah and inshAllah my brother u will find the right wife... jus have patience.. as Allah the Almighty LOVES people who are patient and inshAllah u will get the best if u jus wait! concentrate on bettering urself.. loveing the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and Allah.. and inshAllah jus watch.. Allah will bless u with everything u do dua for...

:salam2:
jazakAllah khayr for the advice. however, i neede to know about asking the imam about this if i get a chance to speak to him tonight inshAllah.

 

[ScotsMuslim]

I would think there is no problem about that in ramadan.. but as long as ur not fasting mayb after iftari but then again u can wait for a brother or sister to post sumthing who are more knowlegable than me init hope u find a wife quick

keep me in ur duas bro

 

[nyerekareem]

:salam2:

i'm trying to be strong lol.

 

[huda2]

:salam2:

i have a question about marriage proposals. well i have been seeking a wife for some time now, and for a few months there had been someone that i had been considering for marriage, but in the end she didn't think we had chemistry, whatever that means. as we all know, we are in the month of ramadan, but i wanted to know if it would be proper for me, during this holy month to ask my imam if he's aware of any sisters seeking marriage or should i wait for ramadan to be over first? i ask these questions because i don't know about the etiquettes of marriage proposals and the like, during ramadan.

i'm 27 years old and i'm trying to complete my deen with marriage. i've been lowering my gaze like crazy and fasting too. but it's been extremely difficult for me. it's weird that the haram is such an easy way out, while the halal is much more of a challenge. it's an uphill battle that will bring success inshAllah. i'm just shy to ask my imam.

:salam2:

ramadaan kareem, my dear bro I think its ok to ask the imam. My brother's freind got married last week and the imam was the one who found the sister for this bro, so I believe its ok. Dont be shy just talk to him. Insha allaah be patient and make alot of duaas, insha allaah i will make duaa fr u.


:salam2:

 

[nyerekareem]

:salam2:

ramadaan kareem, my dear bro I think its ok to ask the imam. My brother's freind got married last week and the imam was the one who found the sister for this bro, so I believe its ok. Dont be shy just talk to him. Insha allaah be patient and make alot of duaas, insha allaah i will make duaa fr u.


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:salam2:

jazakAllah khayr

 

[massi]

:salam2:
I will say you go ahead and don't hestate don't be shy go ahead and ask your imam anice religiouse woman .gogooggoogogogooggogo
don't you know that the marriage is obligatory when you afraid from zena .
go ahead .... but first pray salate el istikhara it's his time my bro.

 

[Muslimah-S]

Walikumasalam

I agree with sister Huda.

 

[alkathiri]

:salam2:


i'm 27 years old and i'm trying to complete my deen with marriage. i've been lowering my gaze like crazy and fasting too. but it's been extremely difficult for me.

Salam bro

May god reward you with a wife you fully deserved. Definitely, you can ask your imam anytime

All the best