Salam Aleykum'
I know this beautiful nice sister who is trying to lead a straight life to the best of her ability "like everyone else" the problem is.... this highly respected man in the Muslim community, whom at one time proposed marriage to her..... she accepted but when she found out he was only divorce by religion and not the laws of the country she immidiatly rejected him and told him to come back when he was also divorce by the laws of the country. To make the storie short his excuse was it would take some time to gather up what was intitle to the soon to be ex and that they have to reside in the same household for the children sake till he gives her her share, but in the mean time he could not live without seeing this sister....of course when hearing this outragious and complicated circumstances the sister said "NO WAY" He has been stalking, followin, ringing her door bell and phone hundreds of times and trying to get her to sin continuesly and tells her if she marries someone else he will do something to stop their happyness, by the way he has been married several times. What should this poor helpless sister do....he tells her no one will believe her because he is so well liked and respected in the community...I hope he tells that to Allah one day. How can I help her? Any suggestions?
Sheba
I know this beautiful nice sister who is trying to lead a straight life to the best of her ability "like everyone else" the problem is.... this highly respected man in the Muslim community, whom at one time proposed marriage to her..... she accepted but when she found out he was only divorce by religion and not the laws of the country she immidiatly rejected him and told him to come back when he was also divorce by the laws of the country. To make the storie short his excuse was it would take some time to gather up what was intitle to the soon to be ex and that they have to reside in the same household for the children sake till he gives her her share, but in the mean time he could not live without seeing this sister....of course when hearing this outragious and complicated circumstances the sister said "NO WAY" He has been stalking, followin, ringing her door bell and phone hundreds of times and trying to get her to sin continuesly and tells her if she marries someone else he will do something to stop their happyness, by the way he has been married several times. What should this poor helpless sister do....he tells her no one will believe her because he is so well liked and respected in the community...I hope he tells that to Allah one day. How can I help her? Any suggestions?
Sheba