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Citara

Citara

Junior Member
Good read, very true. We always need to be reminded as muslims we are all servants of Allah.
JazakAllah,
 
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a muslima

New Member
a muslima

thanks for this essay
it s really interesting
you are right
well, iam a new member in this site looking for friends
:blackhijab::ma::ma:
Mrmuslim said:
salaam alaikom

A brother suggested to post this under the above title ... below what Brother Ibn Azem posted earlier, Jazah Allah Khyran on his nice advise.... so please read it carefully

No Dispute among the Believers​


One of the secrets of the believers' success is the warm brotherhood and solidarity among them. The Qur'an emphasizes the importance of unity: "Verily, Allâh loves those who fight in His Cause in rows (ranks) as if they were a solid structure" (Surat as-Saff, 61:4)

Any statement or behaviour that may damage this close brotherhood would be an adversary act against religion itself. Allah (swt) warns the believers against this threat in the Qur'an: "Obey Allah and His Messenger; and fall into no disputes, lest you lose heart and your power depart; and be patient and persevering: for Allah is with those who patiently persevere." (Surat al-Anfal, 8:46)

Hence, the sincere believer must be extremely cautious of entering into such disputes, avoiding words or manners that may hurt his brothers. Moreover, he should behave in such a way as to increase affection and confidence among them.

In the Qur'an, we have the clear decree: "Say to My servants that they should only say those things that are best: for Satan sows dissensions among them: Satan is to man an avowed enemy." (Surat al-Isra, 17:53)
If a believer does not have the same opinion as his brother on some issue, he should nevertheless behave and talk in the most modest and humble way. Sharing ideas should remain on the basis of "consultation" and not "debate".

If a contention is observed among two other believers, then what one should do is indicated in the following verse: "The believers are but a single Brotherhood. So make peace and reconciliation between your two (contending) brothers; and fear Allah, so that you may receive His Mercy." (Surat al-Hujraat, 49:10)

It should be noted that even a minor argument of any kind may have very negative effects on our Brotherhood/Sisterhood


:muslim_child: therefore from now on.:muslim_child: ..​

This is for every one ...from now on inshallah if you have a good advice for brothers or sisters you are most welcome to post it, as long as your advise is in a good way and manners, any rude post will be D E L E T E D no exception..
It doesn't matter how good your intention is, if you don't know how to advise people it will be better for you to keep your advice to your self and not post it. Your rude reply can have a bad reaction on people, they will reject your advise and you will be responsible in front of Allah s.w.t.

So it will be B E T T E R if we dont know how to address the issue or how to advise in a good manner with wisdom to stay Q U I E T.

Any rude or harsh posts will be deleted from now on. Some people have good intentions but because of their attitude they are making brothers/sisters uncomfortable on this site and we can not allow this no more.

This how the Prophet, peace be up on him advised people

it was narrated that Anas ibn Maalik said: Whilst we were in the mosque with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), a Bedouin came and started to urinate in the mosque. The companions of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Stop, stop!” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Do not interrupt him; leave him.” So they left him alone until he had finished urinating, then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) called him and said to him: “These mosques are not the place for urinating or for anything filthy, rather they are for the remembrance of Allaah, prayer and reading Qur’aan.” Then he told a man to bring a bucket of water and he threw it over (the urine).

Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 217; Muslim 285.



Wa salaam alaikom
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Zaynab123

Zaynab123

Subhana Allah!
:salam2:

you 've all spoke of the truth, masha Allah. reuniting muslims and helping others should be our only goal not to share our anger jazak Allahu khayra for sharing.

:wasalam::hearts:
 
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nori suja'i

Junior Member
me too,
at anytime if i ever directly or indirectly happened to make anybody in these forum feels hurt i'm so sorry, i was hurt actually if our muslim children, brothers or sisters were treated unjustly.....to purposely make someone feel offended is out of my mind, i apologise again if anyone wants it.

wassalaam.
 
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Sajidah_1

ancient one
MashALLAH this is what was needed to be said .......I always remember this ..what is good is from Allah all else comes from Shaytan ,and inshallah I try hard to make sure the later comes not from my mouth or my tongue
 
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Skywalker

Junior Member
As-salam-o'alaikum

May be sometimes people have difference of opinions but those differences should be resolved in a way such that it doesn't offends the other person.

It is quite natural for humans to argue and sometimes during debates emotions run high but what we need to keep in mind that we all are believers and should resolve every issue cordially.
 
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abuayesha

Junior Member
:salam2:

I happened to read this today. It is true that the discussions among us should be in a moderate and nice way.

It should not lead to a position of NO DEBATE.
Debate will not lead to disunity.
If there is a subject to be debated it should be debated in order to find the truth. Allaah ordered to debate and not to confront.
So the word DEBATE should not be misinterprated.

Of course, we should not utter a word to offend anyone.

Examples:
We read and listen everyday through printed and electronic media that others are provoking Muslims by using the phrase, "ISLAMIC TERRORISTS", but we should not do that for the others. And from time to time they spread a thread calling, "ISLAM CONVERTED PEOPLE BY SWORD."

Terrorism means terrorism whether it is done by Muslims or another group with a different identity.

If a Muslim murdered a person, the culprit is a criminal, but not his religion.

In order to explain something, sometime a debate is needed.

Therefore, be moderate and nice, but do not fall into a situation that will send you to a cave and get lost.

Wassalaam
 
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