waAlaykum Alsalam..
sister in faith.......really i didn't finds words to express my thankful to u
More than......gazakum Allah khyran......
but u should keep in ur mind also these hadeeth...
وأين نحن من قول النبى صلى الله عليه وسلم
« تهادوا تحابّوا »
(صحيح الجامع:3004)
فالهدية لها أثر عظيم فى تأليف القلوب ودعوتهم إلى طاعة علام الغيوب جل وعلا.
وأين نحن من البسمة والرحمة فيما بيننا فقد قال صلى الله عليه وسلم
« لا تحقرن من المعروف شيئاً ولو أن تلقى أخاك بوجهٍ طليقٍ »
(أخرجه مسلم)
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So this problem does not exist in the Islamic way of life.
The one who constantly remembers Allaah and worships Him cannot find any empty time that needs to be filled. He is busy remembering Allaah and doing voluntary acts of worship after doing what is obligatory.
He keeps himself busy memorizing Qur’aan and reciting it in worship of Allaah. He is busy visiting friends and loved ones, and visiting the sick among his friends and acquaintances, or spending time having innocent fun with his wife and children, or with fellow-believers.
From Qadaaya al-Lahw wa’l-Tarfeeh by Maadoon Rasheed, 63.
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Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) was asked, “Did the Companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) laugh?” He said, “Yes, and the faith in their hearts was like mountains.”
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The poet spoke well when he said:
Do not think of minor sins as insignificant, for mountains are made out of pebbles.
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I ask Allaah to open your heart to goodness and to make you steadfast in adhering to the truth until You meet Him. May he divert all evil away from you, for He is All-Hearing, Ever Near. And Allah knows best.