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My dear respected brothers and sisters, before you read the rest of my post, i must say that the following opinion is a personal one and i dont mean to pass any ruling, not that i am capable of anyway.
I am a male, if i go to watch 'spider man', i would most probably see spider man himself, a villain and a beautiful heroine. Now concentrate, this cute girl would not be in hijab, she would probably be wearing a skirt exposing a good part of her thighs and everything below it and God knows what else as well. For sure there will be a couple of kisses as well. I shouldn't be going in details but this is what really happens. I have been watching movies for ages till last couple of months that i quit, totally with the help of Allah.
If you are with your family i.e. brothers, sisters, dad and mom, what would you feel if something 'non-vegetarian' (you know what i mean and that includes kisses as well) goes on? If you are with your husband and you have a couple of extra pounds and not as boastfully beautiful as the heroine(its just makeup anyway) then what? You'l feel like humiliated. What if your husband is not as athletic as spider man, well ofcourse i dont mean he can spin the threads but the rest, then what? Remember, its PG 13 or U rated for them, according to their standards, not ours. Their fully young daughters wear bikkinis in front of their fathers for God's sake! Think about it.
This was your brother advising you on what he thinks about movies. Plz, Allah knows i didnt wana offend anyone.