STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN!!!

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN!!!!!!!!


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It is hard to give general picture of position of women today and give judgment in which and WHY women is disriminated and degrated on diffrent bases.

Due to investigations are due to reports of investigation agencies we can conclude that today women are degrated on many bases but violence in family is one of the most present way of violence which tortments not only women and children but entire familes and society

The fact that after bringing Declaration of the rights and fundamental liberty of man (1948) was necesery to work on special instruments of WOMEN HUMAN RIGHTS!!!!
This all sais for itselfe that women were and still are degrated in many fileds of life.

* Convencion about political rights (1952)

*pacts about cilvil,political,social,econmic and cultral rights (1964)

*CEDAW (1979)

*Declaration about emilating the violence again women (1993)

*Convencion about children rights (1989)

There are diffrente typs of violence physical,emotional,psychic,ecomic, etc.

Try to inform your selfe about that trought literature,diffrent kind of web sites,or trough conversation with proffesional people or in goverment or non goverment organizations.
The conceqences of violence in family are than many women lost hier lifes,a many mans are in prison,while childrens are taken from their parents and sent in diffrent institutions in which govermnet they can not have chilhood and family like other children.
This can prevent on the way that you should act active,and do everything waht is in your POWER to STOP the VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN and have peacefull conscience infront of God and other people.


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: Women and Crime
Summary:

• Domestic violence is the leading contributor to death, disability and illness in Victorian women under the age of 45 years.
• In 2002-03, domestic violence was estimated to cost the Australian economy $8 billion each year.
• At least 1 in 17 women is a victim of violence each year.
• Fewer women reported being assaulted than 10 years ago.
• Women are mostly assaulted at home, often repeatedly, by a man they know.
• Women often talk to family or friends about the violence they are experiencing rather than go to the police or a support agency.
• Women tend not to report assault because victims trivialise the incident or fear retaliation from the offender.
• However, more women are reporting violence to police than 10 years ago.
• Many people still believe that men are biologically driven to rape and female victims 'ask for it'.
• An increasing number of people believe that men and women equally commit domestic violence.
• The number of female prisoners is increasing at a faster rate than male prisoners and for the more serious violent crimes.

How many women experience violence?

It is difficult to estimate the true prevalence rate of violence against women as definitions and methods of data collection vary between jurisdictions, agencies, and surveys.
The Australian Bureau of Statistics' national Crime and Safety Survey,1 which measures the extent of crime in our community, estimated that about 5% of Australian women had experienced assault at least once in the prior year.
The Australian component of the 2004 International Violence Against Women Survey2 showed that 57% of women reported some level of physical and/or sexual harm over their life course (that is, since the age of 16 years). Nine percent of women reported experiencing sexual violence only, 23% reported experiencing physical violence only, and 25% of women experienced both types of violence either in the same incident or on separate occasions. The survey found that one in ten women reported experiencing physical and/or sexual harm during the last twelve months.

Violence includes physical and sexual assault and threat.

Men are the perpetrators in the majority of assault against men and women, and women tend to be physically and sexually assaulted by men they know.


Characteristics of offences


Location of assault



Most physical assaults against women occur at home. The next most common place for women to be physically assaulted is in the workplace (See Figure 7.5). Women are least likely to be physically assaulted in a private vehicle, using public transport, and at a train station, bus stop or interchange

The majority of physical attacks against women involve one perpetrator, although multiple offenders attack a substantial number of women. The 2005 Crime and Safety Survey1 reported that 16% of assaults of women involved two or more offenders and the results of the 2004 International Crime Victimisation Survey7 showed that 15% of women were attacked by two offenders and 14% of incidents of violence against women involved three or more offenders.
Estimates of the proportion of assaults against women with a weapon range from 11.3%1 to 17%.7 Household objects were most often used as weapons. Smaller numbers of assaults involved the use of knives, guns and syringes/hypodermic needles.
Reporting to police


During 2004–05, 33.3% of all physical violence and 17.8% of all sexual violence perpetrated by men against women were reported to police. Although small, these figures represent an increase over the number of reports in 1996 (Figure 7.7). Women were more likely to tell a friend or a neighbour about the violence than to report it to the authorities.

Instead of contacting specialised agencies, women are more likely to speak to someone close to them about the violence. The majority of female victims of assault surveyed in the Crime and Safety Survey sought support from family members, friends or neighbours, and work colleagues after the incident (Figure 7.11).

The costs of violence

Health costs

Dignity coast


Future life coast



Understanding of violence as a CRIME

Other 'offences against the person' include murder, attempted murder, driving causing death, kidnapping/abduction, robbery, and blackmail and extortion. With the exception of kidnapping/abduction, men are more likely than women to be victims of crime



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Asja

Pearl of Islaam
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BEAT A DRUM AND NOT WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!

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“We have the POWER to STOP domestic violence
We have to say that violence is NEVER okay
We an do that in our community………….
In our neighbohuroods,contry,state nation.
We CAN STOP domestic violence”


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Asja

Pearl of Islaam
I AM NOT A DOOL​



I am not a dool, I have this peace of scarf on me,
Which is covering me,and you and your eyes
Can not see me,I am Muslim girl with heart and soul.

My cover is not covering only me,but you too.
I think that you do not need any cover,because your
Heart and soul are covered.You are living,but like
You are not living.How can you,when you do not have
Heart and soul to breath and for me you say that I am wird.

You do not know me,you do not know understand the beauty
Of this peace of scarf that I wear,you do not know how happy
And peacefull I feel when I am all dressed.

I am not a dool,I have heart and soul.You are smileing
But like you are not,because even you do not know why you are smiling.
You know that you are not happy,you say that you love this life
But you do not know what is love.

You think how this life is beautiful,everything less is importante,
But I ris my look to the sky and I say to you that
Ethernity exist.
I do not want to be a dool for waching because I ma human,beliver in One God
And proud Muslim women.

And what do you know what is human,what means to belive in God,
Who is Muslim women.
You are waching me like I do not belong here,you think
That this is not my choice,you think that this is not what I want to be.

I am crying because of you,I feel you wish to take me in shadow,
But with my peace of sacrf I waep tears of my eyes.
I love my simle scarf,I love that I am human and you are not.
I love that I belive in God and you don’t.

I love that I am Muslim women,proud on her dignity and modesty,
And more than that.
I can only smile to you because I am covered but still I am free,
And you are not covered but still you are traped,and you do not see.

I will smile to you,and I will walk full of life…
I am free and I will always be me.


Written by:Asja

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a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
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Jazaki Allah Khair for this sister..

It's very important for women to be aware of statistics..information about organizations and centers for assisting abused women..and knowing the signs of *abuse* are especially *important* because it essentially leads to *violence* as normally abusive behavior escalates and can turn deadly in some instances!

Baraka Allaho Feeki Ukhti :)

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Asja

Pearl of Islaam
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Every woman is like a rose………if you hurt her she will break a part and fall down.
 

ya allah madad

0mm3afnan
but why there is always muslim woman in the picture whenever it comes to "violence against woman"?
every 3 seconds an american woman is being degraded but there is no american woman in the picture to portray the violence thats being done against her?She is being treated like a tissue paper but the world dont see any voilence.lol



My Muslim sisters!!!!!!,is it correct that you are being treated so violently and badly and you are the most piteous object of the world?
need your answer.
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
but why there is always muslim woman in the picture whenever it comes to "violence against woman"?
every 3 seconds an american woman is being degraded but there is no american woman in the picture to portray the violence thats being done against her?She is being treated like a tissue paper but the world dont see any voilence.lol



My Muslim sisters!!!!!!,is it correct that you are being treated so violently and badly and you are the most piteous object of the world?
need your answer.


Assalamu Allaicomu

Sister I was speaking generaly about violence agaisnt women because when we are talking about violence it is referaing on all women in no diffrence of skin,nacioanlity,or religion because this may affect on diffrente soocites where we can find violence.

Alhamdulillah it is more present on West than in Muslim countries,and Alhamdulillah Allah Almighty and Islaam is giving the women precious place and demands kindly treating of Muslim and any other women.Praise be to Allah.

But it is importante to look on this like global problem,and I think it is duty of all of us to do something to change it,Inshallah.

May Allah bless you

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ya allah madad

0mm3afnan
sister you misunderstood me.i meant not to be rude or anything but i was just pointing to a fact that whenever there is question of degrading woman or violence against her,we see muslim girl or muslim woman in the pictures.look at your posts.who is portrayed in the pics? Muslim girls?
so sorry sister if i offend you.
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
sister you misunderstood me.i meant not to be rude or anything but i was just pointing to a fact that whenever there is question of degrading woman or violence against her,we see muslim girl or muslim woman in the pictures.look at your posts.who is portrayed in the pics? Muslim girls?
so sorry sister if i offend you.

Assalamu Allaicomu dear sister

It is fine dear sister Alhamdulillah,and you do not need to apologise but like I said my post was refarning on all womens on the world,not only Muslims becuase every women deserve respection does not metter if she is Muslim or Non Muslim.It will be wrong if we would talk only about violence on Muslims women (which is Alhamdulilah more less than agains Western womens),and not because we will only point on violence over than but because other womens (Non Muslims) deserve also respection and attention Alhamdulilah.

If you could reed better sister and see the photos,I have put photos of Western,Asian,and African women Alhamdulillah becasue this is the global problem.I also took article about violence in Australia which is not refaring only on Muslim womens Alhamdulillah.
Violence exist in Muslim society too ofcourse not in the same procent like in Western societies but it does exist,especialy in Bangladesh,Pakistan,India,Afghanistan etc.

And Inshallah we all need to try to take active role in this problem,and at last on some way stop the violence agaisnt women Inshallah.

May Allah bless you dear sister,and Jazzak Allah khair for your reply

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SeSaMe

Calm Member ((^_^))
Salamu alaykum

first I'd like to thank u sis "Asja" for this great effort
for sharing such important Topic,
I was discussing with a girl non-muslim about this subject
in other forum,she says that muslim women has no good status


In fact,I'm so sorry for seeing those muslim who are mistreating women in the name of "Islam" :astag:
but,I told her to generalize that problem and don't speak bad or judging Islam from a very few of people!! :)

ur Topic is excellent and Jazak allah khier
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
Salamu alaykum

first I'd like to thank u sis "Asja" for this great effort
for sharing such important Topic,
I was discussing with a girl non-muslim about this subject
in other forum,she says that muslim women has no good status


In fact,I'm so sorry for seeing those muslim who are mistreating women in the name of "Islam" :astag:
but,I told her to generalize that problem and don't speak bad or judging Islam from a very few of people!! :)

ur Topic is excellent and Jazak allah khier

Allaicomu Salam dear sister

Thank you for taking participation in this thead Mashallah.

Islaam is giving to women the highest place SubhanAllah,and Muslim womens are the most respected and Mashallah you explain good sister that they should not generalise things on us Muslims Alhamdulillah becasue it is not truth that Muslim womens are misthreated in general when it is case on only with some so called "Muslims" becasue who ever misthreat any women is not Muslim.

And Alhamdulillah we have the best example our beloved Prophet Moahmmed s.a.w.s who was the most kind in threating his wifes,and who gave very high place to every women.

May Alalh reword you sister for your kind reply

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Asja

Pearl of Islaam
aren't we talking about muslim women in here?? Coz I smell some feminism in here!
in Islam we don't need to say that,Hell fire is waiting for somebody who hirts other
especially weak ones like women and children,we don't need feminists appeals sister,anyway jazakillah khairan


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We la hawle we la quwete ila billahi

Well dear brother I think that you did not read carefully what I wrote in my thread, neither you have red the title of the thread.

I was not talking about Muslim woman only but about all women on the world who have been and still are victims of horible violence.

Can you please dear brother explain better on what you meant when you said "In islam we can not say that". What is what we can not say in Islam???

Feminism???

Defending honour of woman is for you brother feminism???

Thank you

May Allah guide us all

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ousama34

5 X SALAH = JANAT
salam

i love the poetry in urdu by the way beautiful nd frendly words ,,
sorry u guys can carry on ur disscussion
 

SeSaMe

Calm Member ((^_^))
mashaallah my sister, we are proud of being muslim women,nd followers of "Muhammed" peace be upon him :ma:

I told her to generalize the problem,because she insisted that women abusing is existing Only in the muslim society,
but,surely that's wrong,I told her to correct her information,coz there're so many statistic which assure that it is a global problem

Jazak allahu khier sister for your kind words :)

Salamu alaykum
 

Idris16

Junior Member
Why is it always muslim women they show in pictures while talking abt violence??
Have they themselves lived in muslim countries? worn hijab?
They are slowly eradicating us step by step.
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
Why is it always muslim women they show in pictures while talking abt violence??
Have they themselves lived in muslim countries? worn hijab?
They are slowly eradicating us step by step.

Assalamu Alaicomu dear brother

Jazzak Allah khair dear brother for your reply,but I need to stress someting for those who miunderstand my thread.

This thread is not about photos or who is on photos,it is about violence against women in general.The violence against women in Europe,America,Africa,Asia,Australia.It is about violence again women in general and not particulary in one society.!!!

Most of you has concertrate them selfe on photos that I posted,and not on text of the thread,and on statiscis facts.I did not posted only photos of Muslim women,but of wester and african women too.

I also need to say that it would be wrong and arrogant if we would only think and talk about Muslim womens without thinking on other womens(Non msulim ) who have been victims of horrible violence too.

We are not they,and they are not we,but Alhamdulilalh every women deserves to be threated like human and not like a thing does not metter if she is Muslim or Non Muslim.

May Allah bless you dear brother

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a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member


I also need to say that it would be wrong and arrogant if we would only think and talk about Muslim womens without thinking on other womens(Non msulim ) who have been victims of horrible violence too.

We are not they,and they are not we,but Alhamdulilalh every women deserves to be threated like human and not like a thing does not metter if she is Muslim or Non Muslim.

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Your words made me smile..mashallah..this is the sort of compassion a Muslim is supposed to hang on and spread towards everyone who is less-fortunate (in any aspect of life)..baraka allaho feeki ukhti :)

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Asja

Pearl of Islaam
Your words made me smile..mashallah..this is the sort of compassion a Muslim is supposed to hang on and spread towards everyone who is less-fortunate (in any aspect of life)..baraka allaho feeki ukhti :)

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Assalamu Allaicomu dear sister

Wallahi I am so glade if I could put a smile on the face of my dear sister in Islaam SubhanAllah.:)

But it is only truth dear sister Alhamdulillah,and Alhamdulillah we should feel compasionate towerd others.

Jazzak Allah khair dear sister and may Allah subhan we teala reword you

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