Tabassum07
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I've been meaning to post this thread for quite a while, and today is the perfect opportunity. Right now, I'm in a really depressed mood because I was at a relative's gathering, where almost everyone was older than me (grandmotherly age) and I was the only young person there. The talk turned to religion, and one of them said how their daughters who are reading the Quran translation/commentary are telling their parents not to do certain things like Reading Quran in a gathering (Quran Khaani), and not to do Fatiha/Niaz on food.
This is a very touchy topic with me, because I've tried to explain to my mom not to do these things, but no one listens. Here too, I tried to say all these things were bidah, and all innovations were sinning. But I was at this place where everyone was older than me, and no one really took any heed, and they all continued talking about "Wahhabis" and "new things coming up" and some even said, "Yes, this new generation wants us to stop everything. After all, near the End times new groups will come up..."
And this discussion made me feel really really sad and depressed, I just somehow wanted everyone to understand the right thing and to stop conforming to old traditions, but I wasn't in any position to make any confident statements, because I myself don't have much knowledge on these subjects and I'm still learning.
So.
The purpose of this thread is to explain to me about the different kinds of bidah. Is it okay if I start by one topic, understand that one first, and then move on to another topic? I want to understand everything in detail, so I know whats the correct thing to do and most importantly, WHY. Allah knows that I don't want to do anything misleading or wrong.
The first topic I want to bring up is Fatiha/Niaz on food. You know, where people read duas and blow on food, and then eat some and give some to the poor.
So a little about my background. Since childhood, on certain days (Muharram, Prophet's birthday, Shabebaraat), my mom makes a certain food and my dad does the fatiha on it. This year, since I knew better, I tried sooo very hard to stop my parents from not doing this on Milad un Nabi, but I tried and tried and couldn't convince anyone. It broke my heart very much.
So what's the reasoning why not to do this??
Lol, please no arguing. Let's be peaceful here, inshallah. .
I've been meaning to post this thread for quite a while, and today is the perfect opportunity. Right now, I'm in a really depressed mood because I was at a relative's gathering, where almost everyone was older than me (grandmotherly age) and I was the only young person there. The talk turned to religion, and one of them said how their daughters who are reading the Quran translation/commentary are telling their parents not to do certain things like Reading Quran in a gathering (Quran Khaani), and not to do Fatiha/Niaz on food.
This is a very touchy topic with me, because I've tried to explain to my mom not to do these things, but no one listens. Here too, I tried to say all these things were bidah, and all innovations were sinning. But I was at this place where everyone was older than me, and no one really took any heed, and they all continued talking about "Wahhabis" and "new things coming up" and some even said, "Yes, this new generation wants us to stop everything. After all, near the End times new groups will come up..."
And this discussion made me feel really really sad and depressed, I just somehow wanted everyone to understand the right thing and to stop conforming to old traditions, but I wasn't in any position to make any confident statements, because I myself don't have much knowledge on these subjects and I'm still learning.
So.
The purpose of this thread is to explain to me about the different kinds of bidah. Is it okay if I start by one topic, understand that one first, and then move on to another topic? I want to understand everything in detail, so I know whats the correct thing to do and most importantly, WHY. Allah knows that I don't want to do anything misleading or wrong.
The first topic I want to bring up is Fatiha/Niaz on food. You know, where people read duas and blow on food, and then eat some and give some to the poor.
So a little about my background. Since childhood, on certain days (Muharram, Prophet's birthday, Shabebaraat), my mom makes a certain food and my dad does the fatiha on it. This year, since I knew better, I tried sooo very hard to stop my parents from not doing this on Milad un Nabi, but I tried and tried and couldn't convince anyone. It broke my heart very much.
So what's the reasoning why not to do this??
Lol, please no arguing. Let's be peaceful here, inshallah. .

hope someone can help here no response at my thread :shymuslima1: