I'm marries with two sons 10 and 4 years, living in Middle East for last 7 years. My wife is a doctor and always wanted to study further. I always supported her with this and she's has been trying to get her MRCOG membership but could not clear the exam. So the options before her were to go for a 6 months PG diploma or a 3 years MD in India away from her family. I tried my best to persuade her for the 6 months diploma as it would be easier for the whole family to coupe. But she insisted for the 3 years MD (+3 year registrarship) and we used to have a fight every day. I decided that if she wants to go, let her go with a heavy heart. I even paid partly for her donation and her father also pooled in.
My elder son stayed with me and she left for India and next year her course is beginning. This separation has been shocking for me and I'm sure she's also missing me and her elder son. Initially it was fine, but as days passed her separation has made me unstable. I feel bad about our split family and it's also bad for our children. The elder one who is with me is missing her mother and younger one is missing his father. I don't know how we'll all survive for 6years like a split family.
Please advise what should I do. Our family is suffering and even she's not happy, but adamant to continue.
As a muslim father and a husband what should I do to put my family together again and end this grief. I feel so bad and even started fighting with my wife over the phone and make her feel guilty and responsible for this situation.
Regards..please advise
My elder son stayed with me and she left for India and next year her course is beginning. This separation has been shocking for me and I'm sure she's also missing me and her elder son. Initially it was fine, but as days passed her separation has made me unstable. I feel bad about our split family and it's also bad for our children. The elder one who is with me is missing her mother and younger one is missing his father. I don't know how we'll all survive for 6years like a split family.
Please advise what should I do. Our family is suffering and even she's not happy, but adamant to continue.
As a muslim father and a husband what should I do to put my family together again and end this grief. I feel so bad and even started fighting with my wife over the phone and make her feel guilty and responsible for this situation.
Regards..please advise