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Ummah 99

Ummah 99

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This can help you:
You can recite Surah Rahman and Surah Waqiah daily along with the English meaning, that way you remind yourself of Jannah and be thankful to Allah! :)
 
ukhtifr

ukhtifr

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~Muslimah~ said:
:bismillah:
Assalaamu Alaikum Wr Wb

Here's my problem, would greatly appreciate if you read and advise me, may Allah reward you all.
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I don't know how to explain but i'll try insha'Allah. There's a constant struggle within me. I think I'm harbouring the most evil feelings ever. Whenever I bow down to Allah, I feel pain in my heart. Whenever saying 'Allahu Akbar' in my salah, I feel pain.. while doing zikr as well. Whenever I see people on Islam channel go into sujood in Makkah, I feel pained. If other people praise Allah, again I have this pain.. As if I don't want Him to be praised or worshipped, astaghfirullah.. Far exalted is Allah! The strange thing is, when I see other muslims more practicing than me, I feel very jealous. I think I have a jealousy problem as whenever something good happens to anyone, I feel a pain in my heart. But if something bad happens to someone, I can't help it but immediately there is this hint of relief.. and then I feel very guilty.. then I make Dua for them. I used to enjoy my salah, and felt such peace and happiness. I had the urge to do many good deeds in order to please Allah, and my aim was to become closer to Allah ta'aala!! He was the most beloved to me.. Allah knows best.When I was younger, I used to look at all the magnificent creations, like the sky, the stars, the moon etc... and I would feel awe for Allah and realise His greatness and admire Him and do zikr to praise Him. I believe that I loved Him sincerely for who He was, my Rabb.. However, I no longer have that admiration for Allah anymore. I feel this awful evil feeling, whenever something reminds me of His magnificence and Glory. It's so hard for me to do good deeds now. When I do zikr it's like i'm forcing myself to say, 'subhan'Allah, alhamdulillah, la ilaha ilallah, Allahu Akbar etc.' I'm not praising Allah sincerely.. it's not coming from my heart. When I read Qur'an, whenever Allah ta'aala praises Himself or whenever His Glory is described.. I feel a bad feeling. I force myself to pray now, it's difficult to even pray. During almost every prayer I'm sad and I cry due to how I feel. Literally after almost every prayer i cry and cry... why don't I love Him???? :blue: I'm fearful that I might never love Him. Allah might be displeased, I don't know what to do to get rid of this.
It's an evil feeling. I'm scared that it's a type of shirk, because naturally people feel that feeling towards other humans.. how can anyone feel such evil towards Allah, Al Khaleq! I feel like I am among the worst of human beings to ever live.. :( I don't think there is love for Allah in my heart, and I have been yearning for SO long for this love be instilled in my heart. I have been making Dua and have been crying to Allah about this, and I know that he will surely respond, as he never rejects a Dua of a believer.. but I don't know what else to do. there is no proper masjid here as I live in an area where there aren't many muslims at all.. and I don't think the women there can help me. I read Qur'an to seek guidance from Allah, but there doesn't seem to be a way out yet.
I have been suffering from this for almost a year now, and I think it's beginning to have an effect on my mental and physical health.. I always complained to my mum about this, and she gets very worried about me because my eyes are always wet with tears and I am always severely depressed. I never happy anymore. I've become so quiet, no one enjoys my company as much now because I'm always so serious. I think I've also developed social anxiety. I'm not normal anymore.. my mum says I might go mental if I continue like this (may Allah protect me). Now I've stopped complaining to my mum, as she gets stressed. I'm suffering on my own. Only Allah is there for me.
My question is, how do I increase my love for Allah? I'm desperate for someone to advise me, because if I don't love Allah.. then Allah might not love me... then I might not go to Jannah... and I'll never be able to see Him... And I'm scared that Allah will never be pleased with me because of this.. what if my deeds are not accepted? I know that Allah is the Most Forgiving, the All loving.. but I feel like I don't deserve to go to paradise at all! It grieves me that I don't truly love Allah.. Dear Brothers and sisters, please make a short dua in your heart for me. Could someone help me to increase my love for Allah? Awaiting your replies.. May Allah reward those who may take their time out to help me out and advise me!
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Brother Anas jazak'Allahu khairan for replying.. I accidentally posted my post when I wasn't even finished! So I had to edit my post afterwards.. I hope I haven't confused you!

Salaam! :muslima1:
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wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullah wabarakatuhu my dear sist... ^__^*, hope u are well due to Allah 's grace and mercy..

Al Hamdulillah I'm so happy can meet u in this forum..

firstly wanna inform u 'if I love u for the sake of Allah.. <3 , : )

according to ur problem...

here is one of answer on islamqa.

may this can help u in sha Allah ^__^*

Praise be to Allaah.


You should appreciate the blessing that Allaah has bestowed upon you by enabling you to repent and adhere to your religion, before death comes suddenly. So you should thank Him greatly for this blessing, which should make you strive harder to obey Him.

Al-Bukhaari (4836) and Muslim (2819) narrated that al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) stood (in prayer) until his feet became swollen. It was said to him: Allaah has forgiven your past and future sins. He said: “Should I not be a thankful slave?”

So how can you accept to respond to goodness with something bad, and to go back to square one after you had gone so far in the way of righteousness? Rather we hope that you will go back to the way you were when you started to follow the straight path, for you have deviated and gone astray from the path after Allaah blessed you with righteousness. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to seek refuge with Allaah from such a thing. In Saheeh Muslim (1343) it is narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Sarjis said: When the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) travelled, he would seek refuge with Allaah from the hardships of travel, from bad consequences, from a bad situation after a good situation, from the prayer of one who has been wronged, and from an ill-fated outcome with regard to family and wealth.

In His Holy Book, Allaah strikes a similitude for the one who goes back to bad ways and destroys what he has built up, and turns away from the path of guidance, which explains the bad situation he is in and what he has chosen for himself, and He warns His slaves against doing this foolish deed:

“And fulfil the Covenant of Allaah (Bai‘ah: pledge for Islam) when you have covenanted, and break not the oaths after you have confirmed them — and indeed you have appointed Allaah your surety. Verily, Allaah knows what you do.

92. And be not like her who undoes the thread which she has spun, after it has become strong, by taking your oaths as a means of deception among yourselves, lest a nation should be more numerous than another nation. Allaah only tests you by this (i.e. who obeys Allaah and fulfils Allaah’s Covenant and who disobeys Allaah and breaks Allaah’s Covenant). And on the Day of Resurrection, He will certainly make clear to you that wherein you used to differ (i.e. a believer confesses and believes in the Oneness of Allaah and in the Prophethood of Prophet Muhammad صلىالله عليه وسلمwhich the disbeliever denies and that is their difference amongst them in the life of this world)”

[al-Nahl 16:91-92]

Shaykh Ibn al-Sa’di (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

This includes everything that a person has covenanted to Allaah, such as acts of worship, vows and faith, because fulfilling that is righteousness. It also includes that which he and others have covenanted, such as covenants between people.

“And be not” in breaking the covenants in the worst and most foolish manner, “like her” who spins a strong thread, then when she has nearly finished it, she breaks it and it comes undone, so she exhausted herself spinning the thread and then undoing it, and she did not gain anything but frustration, exhaustion and foolishness. The same applies to the one who breaks the covenant; he is a wrongdoer, ignorant, foolish, lacking in religious commitment and manliness. End quote. (p. 447)

So hasten to repent from this, for giving up prayer is one of the gravest of sins by which Allaah is disobeyed. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) described not praying as kufr, and he said: “The covenant that stands between us and them is prayer; whoever gives it up is a kaafir.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (2545) and by Ahmad and others; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani.

It is strange how the brother can say: I have tried not to fall into sin,” then he says that he missed a lot of prayer. What is his concept of sin in that case?!

Giving up prayer is the greatest and most serious sin. You have tried to prevent yourself from doing every sin except associating others with Allaah (shirk).

So hasten to repent and regret what you have done, before there comes a moment when man regrets at the time when regret is to no avail.

As for you saying that you have a “complex about prayer” and you feel that you will never recover from this complex, this is a trick of the shaytaan who makes this idea seem attractive. You are the one who has helped your enemy against yourself, and you let him fill your mind with the idea of this complex which stems from illusions and laziness, and lack of resolve to do good. So hasten to solve this problem by obeying Allaah, may He be exalted, and keeping your wudoo’, and hastening to pray when the time for prayer begins.

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The Shaytaan ties three knots at the back of the head of any one of you when he goes to sleep, striking each knot and saying: “You have a long night ahead, so sleep.” If he wakes up and remembers Allaah, one knot is undone. If he does wudoo’, two knots are undone. If he prays, all the knots are undone, and he starts the day energetic and in a good mood. Otherwise, he starts his day in a bad mood and feeling lazy.”

Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3269) and Muslim (776).

Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr (may Allaah have mercy on him)said: This hadeeth indicates that the shaytaan causes a person to sleep and makes him feel heavy and lazy through his efforts and waswaas, and his ability to tempt, mislead and make falsehood seem attractive, except the sincere slaves of Allaah.

This hadeeth indicates that the shaytaan may be expelled by means of remembrance of Allaah (dhikr), as well as wudoo’ and prayer. End quote. Al-Tahmeed (19/45).

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Undoubtedly prayer itself offers good health to the body, and helps the body to rid itself of impurities and keep that which most beneficial thing for it, as well as offering protection to one’s faith and happiness in this world and the hereafter.

Similarly, qiyaam al-layl is one of the most beneficial means of protecting one’s well being and preventing many chronic diseases, and it is one of the most energizing things for the body, soul and heart, as it says in al-Saheehayn… and he quoted the hadeeth.

Zaad al-Ma’aad (4/225).

Do not feel weak before your enemy, and do not let him gain any power over you. Seek the help of Allaah and do not feel helpless – as your Prophet(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) has enjoined you. Remember that “ever feeble indeed is the plot of Shaytaan (Satan)” [al-Nisa’ 4:76]. Remember that the obligatory prayers are easy and the Muslim will not find it burdensome to perform them regularly.

With regard to what you mention about losing interest, the reason for that may be the kind of people with whom you are keeping company. Try as much as you can to attend gatherings of dhikr and knowledge, and to sit with good companions, for acts of worship are easy when a person sees others whom he can take as examples and who can help him with it. A person will inevitably be exposed to situations which make him feel stronger and more keen to do good, and other situations where that keenness will be less. But it is not permissible to let that lead you to giving up obligatory duties or committing haraam actions. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Every deed has a period of enthusiasm, and every period of enthusiasm is followed by a slackening off. If a person’s enthusiasm is for my Sunnah, then he has succeeded, but whoever chooses something else when he slackens off is doomed.”

Narrated by Ahmad (6725) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’ (no. 2151).

Hence our advice to you is to set a regular program for yourself which you should not neglect, including the obligatory and confirmed naafil prayers. If you do more than that occasionally that will be good upon good, and if you fall short then do not fall short in doing the obligatory prayers.

With regard to the prayers that you have missed in the past, whatever you missed because of sleep, there is no sin on you for that but you have to make them up. As for those that you missed with no excuse, i.e., you were too lazy to do them before the time for them ended, then you have to repent, and in that case making them up will not avail you anything. What you have to do is offer a lot of naafil prayers and pray for forgiveness, so that Allaah may forgive you.

We have also discussed the words of the scholars in the answer to question no. 7969.

And Allaah knows best.

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ukhtifr

ukhtifr

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and dear sist Muslimah.. I'm sharing ur message.. to other sisters and brothers... and they suport u so much..

and here is one of the replay :
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    aasalamo alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu.

    a mesaage from a sister is 90% my story. I didnt wrote there because i dont like it publically

    a suggestion for her from a Brother. , Ask her to remember Who she had hurt. and ask forgiveness from that person who got hurt by her. . I felt relief after I did this. and Alhamdulillah im little better
 
ukhtifr

ukhtifr

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Maris Maryam Umm Nuh Btw, if she will be looking for a raaqi, she should make sure that the person is doing ruqyah according to Qur'an and Sunnah. She can make ruqyah herself inshaa'Allah or a family member. May Allah Subhana wa ta'ala cure her, ameen.
 
muhammad sabri

muhammad sabri

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My Dear Sister Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu to all the brothers and sisters in the thread,
what you wrote is terrible 'cause i know that feeling like this towards someone you love(Allah in this case) is hard..and it's painful, the brothers and sisters above me answered writing many benefitting things and i suggest to follow theyr advice BUT i know how it feels,i paased trough it and i think i can help,read on please: '' I lived a period in my life in which almost my everybreath was to Allah,i would remind Him all day long, and at night, and i wanted to be the best..not just the best i could have been but literally the best to Him..after all i loved Him, then i started to feel that pain you described and i was sad..depressed,cause i knew i loved Him and didn't know what to do i looked at the sky and the stars, then the earth and the animals on it, then the people and i noticed that i was missing something..cause i knew Allah is real,He showed me the proofs i needed and i believed in Him more than i believed i was alive!..but still that feeling was crushing me, so i took a period off everything, away from people,just me and Allah(of course i was living with my parents but..you know what i mean :) ),i talked to Him as if He was there in front of me..cause He WAS in front of me..always there watching for me,protecting me,He was my friend My beloved and He said that if someone goes to him walking He comes to him at speed! And i knew Allah was there...i spent some time in this meditative state,talking to Allah until i realized..i thought to my self IS THERE SOMEWHERE ELSE WHERE I FELT THIS ANGUISH INSIDE OF ME? The answer was yes..to me it was love related,just like you i felt jealous when other muslims did good,just like you i felt this pain inside of me when praying Allah and that's because we love Him but don't direct our love in the right way! That feeling you have is the feeling of wanting Allah..then the shaytan tempts..the Ego too and we think WHY CAN'T we BE WITH HIM?..WHERE IS HIM?..and love becomes distorted...cause we're Humans.or better CAUSE WE'RE INSAN! In arabic INSAN means the forgetful ones,we forget many things and we forget(also because of the shaytan sometimes) that Allah thinks about us if we think about Him..my Dear sister..when you pray think about Allah and get emphatic with Him(tho' He knows everything about us and we know little about Him)..we have His names!His Quran WE CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT HE WANTS FROM US AND WHAT HE WOULD SAY TO US IN ALL SITUATIONS CAUSE HE SAID ''VERILY I AM AS MY SERVANT THINKS OF ME!!!and He said NOT THE HEAVENS NOR THE EARTH CAN CONTAIN ME BUT THE HEART OF MY SERVANT CAN!!!! THIS is Allah,THIS is who He is.....FINALLY i want to REMIND you of what Allah will say when meeting us(inch'Allah) in jannah..after we'll see His face He'll meet us privately one by one and He'll say ''Oh My servant..do you remember when you did this and that haram?..we'll answer yes ya rabb..will you ever forgive me? and HE will answer..in the most LIVING LOVABLE BELOVED WAY EVER..''of course..for it is not except by my Rahma that you obtained your place in Jannah and i forgave you..and i'll never be angry at you and i'll always be happy,content,satisfied with you'' Think about Allah...THIS Allah..Think not of HIM as distant but as most near..even nearer THAN YOUR GIUGULAR VEIN as said in another sahih hadiths.. I finish by saying that i don't know what Allah thinks and knows cause HE's most High and we're too limited..but if there's something i learned from being a muslim is that He loves us in a way we can't even imagine..and so loves you too..and the most ''LOVEFULL'' thing i can tell you is ''He loves, He loved you and He'll love you inch'Allah..and His love is a love that never shall perish and that no obstacle will ever be able inch'Allah to defeat''..but this is nothing compared to that which Allah is probably saying(and i ask Allah to say the best things about you and all of us) something MUCH MUCH MUCH MUCH MUCH more beautiful..'cause He created love and loves us :) salam..and try YOU to imagine what Allah could be saying..and if you're sincere then trust me..HE'll be saying things infinitely more lovely. -Muhammad Sabri
 
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Sanshoes

Sanshoes

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Sounds like someone has given you ayn/evil eye (cast their jealousy of you into your heart) or you got jinn.

There are formulas Qur'an verses and du'a. What you need to do is listen to Ruqya recordings. Best practice is to sit down in a comfy chair a few times a day for at least an hour or more with speakers or headphones and let the Ruqya in to kill the jinn or cure your ayn poison.

Just google youtube for the word: ruqya and listen daily until cured. may take days, weeks or months. It's medicine.
 
~Muslimah~

~Muslimah~

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Jazak'Allah Khair for everyone who replied, they have helped me feel a bit better Alhamdulillah! I appreciate your answers. May Allah raise your ranks and admit you all into Jannah.. and reward you multiple fold for every letter you wrote... and may Allah swt unite the Ummah with love and mercy :love_heart: May Allah protect you all from every kind of evil and fitna... and protect you all in this world and in the hereafter.. and make us all among those who humble themselves before Him, and among those who love Him more than anything and everything, and among those servants who will be among the righteous and among those servants who worship Him sincerely and wholeheartedly.. and Whom Allah will bestow His Mercy upon on the Day of Judgment!!! Please say Ameen! Ameen.
Please make Dua that I feel better and normal soon.. And ask Allah swt to forgive me and guide me! :salah:
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Brother Muhammad Sabri, have you really been through the exact situation as me? I thought it was only me. You mentioned, "then i started to feel that pain you described and i was sad..depressed,cause i knew i loved Him and didn't know what to do" What do you mean by that? You felt this evil feeling towards Allah as well? Have I understood wrong? Could you elaborate if possible? And also "but still that feeling was crushing me, so i took a period off everything, away from people,just me and Allah" What feeling was crushing you? Your answer was very helpful. Please could you or anyone else give me some pointers as to how to increase my love for Allah swt?
I really need to know how to increase my love for :allah:
Please help me out, anyone. :SMILY149:

Salam!
Muslimah
 
Ummah 99

Ummah 99

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I really need to know how to increase my love for :allah:
Please help me out, anyone. :SMILY149:
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Okay, here is what I did, I forced myself into learning at least one Islamic thing everyday, it can be anything- dua, Dhikr, Sunnah, Alm, Hadith etc! :)
Try it, it helps. :)
 
Sanshoes

Sanshoes

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The first best thing you can do sister is listen to Ruqya @ about 45-60 min per session, daily. Jinn administer magic etc and guard over it within you. The ruqya verses are not just any verses from the Qur'an. Though all the verses cause the jinn pain & discomfort. The "ruqya" sessions are certain verses that the ulema have noticed seem to inflict maximum pain, damage & death to the offending jinn. Some verses kill, others burn and so on.

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=+ruqya&sm=12
 
muhammad sabri

muhammad sabri

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~Muslimah~ said:
Jazak'Allah Khair for everyone who replied, they have helped me feel a bit better Alhamdulillah! I appreciate your answers. May Allah raise your ranks and admit you all into Jannah.. and reward you multiple fold for every letter you wrote... and may Allah swt unite the Ummah with love and mercy :love_heart: May Allah protect you all from every kind of evil and fitna... and protect you all in this world and in the hereafter.. and make us all among those who humble themselves before Him, and among those who love Him more than anything and everything, and among those servants who will be among the righteous and among those servants who worship Him sincerely and wholeheartedly.. and Whom Allah will bestow His Mercy upon on the Day of Judgment!!! Please say Ameen! Ameen.
Please make Dua that I feel better and normal soon.. And ask Allah swt to forgive me and guide me! :salah:
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Brother Muhammad Sabri, have you really been through the exact situation as me? I thought it was only me. You mentioned, "then i started to feel that pain you described and i was sad..depressed,cause i knew i loved Him and didn't know what to do" What do you mean by that? You felt this evil feeling towards Allah as well? Have I understood wrong? Could you elaborate if possible? And also "but still that feeling was crushing me, so i took a period off everything, away from people,just me and Allah" What feeling was crushing you? Your answer was very helpful. Please could you or anyone else give me some pointers as to how to increase my love for Allah swt?
I really need to know how to increase my love for :allah:
Please help me out, anyone. :SMILY149:

Salam!
Muslimah
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How to love Allah?..eheh my answer will be a question '' what things make you fall in love for a person(mother,father,brother,friends or husband)? As for the feelings you quoted from me yes, i also had evil feeling and as i already wrote ''i talked to Him as if He was there in front of me..cause He WAS in front of me..always there watching for me,protecting me,He was my friend My beloved and He said that if someone goes to him walking He comes to him at speed! And i knew Allah was there...'' :) wa Salam
 
muhammad sabri

muhammad sabri

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~Muslimah~ said:
Jazak'Allah Khair for everyone who replied, they have helped me feel a bit better Alhamdulillah! I appreciate your answers. May Allah raise your ranks and admit you all into Jannah.. and reward you multiple fold for every letter you wrote... and may Allah swt unite the Ummah with love and mercy :love_heart: May Allah protect you all from every kind of evil and fitna... and protect you all in this world and in the hereafter.. and make us all among those who humble themselves before Him, and among those who love Him more than anything and everything, and among those servants who will be among the righteous and among those servants who worship Him sincerely and wholeheartedly.. and Whom Allah will bestow His Mercy upon on the Day of Judgment!!! Please say Ameen! Ameen.
Please make Dua that I feel better and normal soon.. And ask Allah swt to forgive me and guide me! :salah:
:smile-31:

Brother Muhammad Sabri, have you really been through the exact situation as me? I thought it was only me. You mentioned, "then i started to feel that pain you described and i was sad..depressed,cause i knew i loved Him and didn't know what to do" What do you mean by that? You felt this evil feeling towards Allah as well? Have I understood wrong? Could you elaborate if possible? And also "but still that feeling was crushing me, so i took a period off everything, away from people,just me and Allah" What feeling was crushing you? Your answer was very helpful. Please could you or anyone else give me some pointers as to how to increase my love for Allah swt?
I really need to know how to increase my love for :allah:
Please help me out, anyone. :SMILY149:

Salam!
Muslimah
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How to love Allah?..eheh my answer will be a question '' what things make you fall in love for a person(mother,father,brother,friends or husband)? As for the feelings you quoted from me yes, i also had evil feeling and as i already wrote ''i talked to Him as if He was there in front of me..cause He WAS in front of me..always there watching for me,protecting me,He was my friend My beloved and He said that if someone goes to him walking He comes to him at speed! And i knew Allah was there...'' :) wa Salam
 
~Muslimah~

~Muslimah~

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Assalamu Alaikum,
Jazak'Allah khair brother.
So I was wondering for Ruqyah, if I start doing it (the permissible way) on myself like reciting surah fatiha, ayatul kursi three Quls etc. And blow over myself, should I do that everyday for the rest of my life, evem if my problem goes away?
Jzk khair in advance.
 
~Muslimah~

~Muslimah~

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Jzk khair to ummah 99, ukhtifr, sanshoes and everyone else who cared about me and took their time out.. May Allah SWT accept all your efforts.
 
~Muslimah~

~Muslimah~

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Anyone? I wanted to know about when to do ruqya, like how many times a day, when do you know when to stop doing ruqya.. Do I have to do it everyday? Should I ever stop doing it? I haven't started ruqya yet because I don't know when and how many times I should do it, or for how long.
 
hijau_lover

hijau_lover

Member
~Muslimah~ said:
Anyone? I wanted to know about when to do ruqya, like how many times a day, when do you know when to stop doing ruqya.. Do I have to do it everyday? Should I ever stop doing it? I haven't started ruqya yet because I don't know when and how many times I should do it, or for how long.
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1. acctually in my country, if you want to do ruqya, you ask help from ustadz that experience with it. because it is hard to do it by your self

2. if you cannot do poin1, you can read/listen for ruqya ayah. you do this if you have pain
- al-fatihah (1-7)
- al-baqarah (1-5), (102-103), (163-164), (225-257), (25-286),
- ali imran (1-10), (18-19), (26-27)
- al-maidah (33-34)
- al-a'raf (54-56), (117-122)
- al-anfal (12-13)
- yunus (81-82)
- ibrahim (15-17), (42-52)
- al hijr ( 16-18)
- al-israa (68-72), (110-111)
- tohaa (69)
- al-mukminun (97-98), (115-118)
- as-saffat (1-10)
- addukhan (43-56)
- al-ahqaf (29-32)
- arrahman (33-56)
- al-hasyr (21-24)
- al jin (1-10)
- al kafirun, al ikhlas, al alfalaq, an nas (based on my book "guide for ruqya syar'iyah)

3. you can stop ruqya when you don't feel the pain anymore

4. always do morning and evening dhikr because these are one part of everyday ruqya

may ALLAH help you with this
 
~Muslimah~

~Muslimah~

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Jazak'Allah khair sister hijau_lover (hijab_lover? :indecisiveness:)
Apparently it's recommended to do ruqyah yourself rather than to ask someone else to do it for you. It says this in many sites i have searched. This is from assimalhakeem.net

Ruqyah in Islam is the recitation of the Quran, seeking of refuge in Allah, remembrance and supplications that are used as a means of treating sicknesses and other problems as the Quran is a source of healing.
This can be done to cure evil eye, possession of Jinn, envy and black magic. The secret behind this is that one puts his full trust, reliance and dependence only on Allah, the source of all healing and cure.
The Sunnah is to do it in odd numbers. It is permissible to have it done to you without you asking for it and it is also permissible to ask someone to do it for you, but this is not recommended.
How to perform ruqyah:
You can recite ruqya on yourself by gathering the palms of your hands and reciting in them the ruqya and then blow in your hands and wipe the area that is ill and hurting you.
You can also bring zam zam water preferably and recite 3, 5 or 7 times the following over it and blow every time you recite it:
Al Fatiha, ayatul Kursi, the last 2 verses of Suratul Baqarah and the last 3 Surah of the Quran. You can add to that any Prophetic Dua’a and blow on it.
Drink from this water in the morning, in the afternoon and before going to bed and also you can wipe with it over the places that hurt you.
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The thing is, I have no physical pain. I think i'm possibly affected by evil eye, sihr or maybe jinn. I can't remember exactly off the top of my head but there's a hadith about 70 000 people on the day of judgement who will go to Jannah without any reckoning or punishment, and one of the characteristics of theses people were that they did not ask for ruqyah to be done for them, but they put their trust in their Lord (meaning they did Ruqyah on themselves seeking Allah's help only, and no one else). Here is a video to clarify this: ​
Regarding listening to Ruqyah, i haven't seen any hadith that says that you can do that. So i wanted to ask should i recite and blow Ruqyah on myself once everyday? I'm not sure what to do, because it's not anything physical... i just THINK I'm affected by evil eye.
Sister hijau_lover, welcome to tti!!! :agreed: May Allah swt make the path to Jannah easy for you, Ameen.

I'm still not sure about this, please sister hijau_lover or anyone else advise me??
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