sitifatimah84
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Assalamualaikum WBT...
Hope all my sisters and brothers are in the best of health and iman...
I need your advice regarding this issue..
There is 1 of my colleague (non muslim) who is interested to marry me. He is 28yr old working in the same college with me. The day he saw me, my attitude n behavior towards other people, make him to fall in love with me. He said that he wants to marry me and willing to convert to islam (only if i promise to marry him).
He has change a little bit.. he stop going to temple, stop wearing red thread in his hand, stop wearing gold chain... i gave him some quran recitation video n he is listening to it... he said that he will do everything (praying, fasting, reading quran n etc) in future if he marry me. but the problem is that i am afraid how if he didnot do what he promise (regarding praying, fasting n etc)...
I did ask him, what if i didnt marry him, is he stil will convert to islam?? He said no.. He said the reason he convert is to marry me. If i didnt agree to marry him, he wont convert to islam. I know that if ALLAH opens heart of the person to embrace islam, definitely the person will do..
I dun have affection nor feelings towards him as i am searching for a soul mate that can guide me soo much in my deen ( i really want to be good and knowledgable in my deen).. now my question is what shoud i do about this person? Will i get sin bcoz i didnt agree to him?? Will i be questioned why i didnot make him to embrace to islam??
I did mention this issue to my parents and they said if he is really a good muslim (practising islam well), then they agree...but the problem is that he is not ikhlas to embrace islam.. he wants to convert if i agree to marry him... I am really really confuse.. This issue really make me feel worry,sad n etc...Please can somebody give advice/suggesstion regarding this issue?? I really really appreciate all your reply.. Thank you soo much...
Hope all my sisters and brothers are in the best of health and iman...
I need your advice regarding this issue..
There is 1 of my colleague (non muslim) who is interested to marry me. He is 28yr old working in the same college with me. The day he saw me, my attitude n behavior towards other people, make him to fall in love with me. He said that he wants to marry me and willing to convert to islam (only if i promise to marry him).
He has change a little bit.. he stop going to temple, stop wearing red thread in his hand, stop wearing gold chain... i gave him some quran recitation video n he is listening to it... he said that he will do everything (praying, fasting, reading quran n etc) in future if he marry me. but the problem is that i am afraid how if he didnot do what he promise (regarding praying, fasting n etc)...
I did ask him, what if i didnt marry him, is he stil will convert to islam?? He said no.. He said the reason he convert is to marry me. If i didnt agree to marry him, he wont convert to islam. I know that if ALLAH opens heart of the person to embrace islam, definitely the person will do..
I dun have affection nor feelings towards him as i am searching for a soul mate that can guide me soo much in my deen ( i really want to be good and knowledgable in my deen).. now my question is what shoud i do about this person? Will i get sin bcoz i didnt agree to him?? Will i be questioned why i didnot make him to embrace to islam??
I did mention this issue to my parents and they said if he is really a good muslim (practising islam well), then they agree...but the problem is that he is not ikhlas to embrace islam.. he wants to convert if i agree to marry him... I am really really confuse.. This issue really make me feel worry,sad n etc...Please can somebody give advice/suggesstion regarding this issue?? I really really appreciate all your reply.. Thank you soo much...