Assalamo alikom wa rahmato Allah wa barakato
Well if i chose to move to a muslim country the only choice i would have would be to move to pakistan...but then i wonder whether i can still call pakistan a muslim country anymore
This is a very good point. At first, I used to dream of living in a 'muslim' country, but unfortunately I have realised that that's not always the best option.
First of all I want to say that it depends on the upbringing and example kids get at home. that's for sure, but we cannot deny the influence of the surroundings, either.
My conclusion, after what I've seen with my own eyes, is that I rather living in a 'kafir' country where you see bad things from the unbelievers, and not living in a 'muslim' country and seeing bad things from so called 'muslim' people. Sometimes when your are in a tough environment, that makes you value and stick more to Islam.
My husband is from Morocco, and he never really knew anything 'serious' about Islam until he moved to Europe. I've been once to his country, and there are many advantages islamically there, but unfortunately, I saw things that I would not like my daughter to see from a muslim or from a hijabi. I also felt like 'teaching' them or showing them what really Islam is! And that's what's happenning not just there, but in all 'muslim' countries, I'm afraid.
When I see muslim sisters having boyfriends, selling haram things, practicing withcraft, wearing plenty make up, and so on ... I rather being here. Allah knows best.
May Allah guide us and forgive us all.
Assalamo alikom wa rahmato Allah wa barakato.