You think I'm crazy?!

[Muslim_Gurl]

:salam2:

I want honest answers, please :shymuslima1: After reading my threads "I'm losing memory" and "Weird things are happening to me...." do you actually think I'm crazy?! :O How come everyone's saying that?? Whoever I mention this too they are like "I think your insane". SubhnAllah I'm NOT!! Im perfectly fine Alhumdulilah!!! I dont know why they are saying that

Is that what you guys think too?? Please, please, I want honest answers :shymuslima1: I wont be *too* hurt if you tell me the truth. IS that what you think of me??

 

[ShahnazZ]

Telling someone they're insane is a very judgmental thing to do and I don't think you should be listening to these people.

Personally, I've never read your threads so I don't know what types of problems you're facing. Could you elaborate on what you mean when you say you're losing memory and weird things are happening to you?

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

Telling someone they're insane is a very judgmental thing to do and I don't think you should be listening to these people.

Personally, I've never read your threads so I don't know what types of problems you're facing. Could you elaborate on what you mean when you say you're losing memory and weird things are happening to you?

They are my parents, and most of the things they say really affect me

Ohh and these the two threads I was talking about:

http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=64440

http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=64414

 

[revert2007]

Assalmaualikum siter.I have been reading most of your threads and all you post is about your problems and so on.I guess you might be going through some serious depression.Allahu alam.Why don't you see a doctor and find out your root problem?You are going through very hard time because of your parents and I guess you should do something about it.If you do not cure it now...soon or later what others said about you might come true nauzubilla.The thread where you said,you saw someone and so on it is kinda difficult for me to believe but am not judging and Allah knows the best.Try to seek a real help from someone and talk heart to heart what is bothering you.BY publishing all your problems in a public thread is not going to solve your problem and you will only give "bad" impression to others especially to those who do not know you.many different types of suggestion will only confuse you.So try get get a professional help from someone.Allah knows the best.

 

[ShahnazZ]

As for the thread titled "Weird things are happening to me", I definitely do not believe you're insane. Sometimes Shaytan tries to scare us from doing good things. He does this to discourage us with the hopes that if he scares us enough we'll abandon doing those good things. He usually "operates" in the form of something called waswasa. These are his whisperings to you throughout the day and not necessarily during a certain part of the day. However, the fact that you can hear these voices as well as see things externally may mean that it's possible you have a jinn harassing you. In this case, I think you should recite Ayat al-Kursi before going to bed each night. This is one of the most powerful ayaat Allah has bestowed upon mankind and it's for our protection. When a Muslim recites this before going to sleep, an angel stands guard by them and watches over them all night. I haven't posted the daleel (proof) on that here but if you want it, I can give it to you. Also make sure your room is clean and that you yourself are always in a state of cleanliness. Remember to always pray to Allah as well.

The twinkling stars thing doesn't seem too out of the ordinary. They do come out at night and they do twinkle lol . Sometimes maybe a little more than usual but that may just be because the sky may be more clear on some nights than on others.

As for the "I'm losing my memory" thread, rest assured sister, that it happens to ALL OF US. Remember the waswasa I was telling you about just now? Part of that is making you doubt whether you prayed properly or not. If you doubt yourself, then just redo the prayer. Everything you've stated about forgetting, I've experienced myself as well. Just do your utmost best to put everything else out of your mind and focus on Allah alone. Being forgetful isn't something abnormal; it was said that the Prophet Adam a.s. was extremely forgetful and that we inherit our forgetfulness from him (as stated in Ibn Kathir's Qisas al-Anbiya).

My point? You're not insane sister, you're just human like the rest of us None of these are things that Allah can't help you with. Just always remember Him and you'll be fine inshAllah.

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

BY publishing all your problems in a public thread is not going to solve your problem and you will only give "bad" impression to others especially to those who do not know you.

I'm sorry sister. I don't have anyone else I can talk to I don't go to school , or anywhere else.

Thanks for your honest reply my dear sister

Wasalam

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

As for the thread titled "Weird things are happening to me", I definitely do not believe you're insane. Sometimes Shaytan tries to scare us from doing good things. He does this to discourage us with the hopes that if he scares us enough we'll abandon doing those good things. He usually "operates" in the form of something called waswasa. These are his whisperings to you throughout the day and not necessarily during a certain part of the day. However, the fact that you can hear these voices as well as see things externally may mean that it's possible you have a jinn harassing you. In this case, I think you should recite Ayat al-Kursi before going to bed each night. This is one of the most powerful ayaat Allah has bestowed upon mankind and it's for our protection. When a Muslim recites this before going to sleep, an angel stands guard by them and watches over them all night. I haven't posted the daleel (proof) on that here but if you want it, I can give it to you. Also make sure your room is clean and that you yourself are always in a state of cleanliness. Remember to always pray to Allah as well.

The twinkling stars thing doesn't seem too out of the ordinary. They do come out at night and they do twinkle lol . Sometimes maybe a little more than usual but that may just be because the sky may be more clear on some nights than on others.

As for the "I'm losing my memory" thread, rest assured sister, that it happens to ALL OF US. Remember the waswasa I was telling you about just now? Part of that is making you doubt whether you prayed properly or not. If you doubt yourself, then just redo the prayer. Everything you've stated about forgetting, I've experienced myself as well. Just do your utmost best to put everything else out of your mind and focus on Allah alone. Being forgetful isn't something abnormal; it was said that the Prophet Adam a.s. was extremely forgetful and that we inherit our forgetfulness from him (as stated in Ibn Kathir's Qisas al-Anbiya).

My point? You're not insane sister, you're just human like the rest of us None of these are things that Allah can't help you with. Just always remember Him and you'll be fine inshAllah.

I love you Thats all I can say atm

 

[ShahnazZ]

I'm sorry sister. I don't have anyone else I can talk to I don't go to school , or anywhere else.

Thanks for your honest reply my dear sister

Wasalam

Sister, don't be ashamed of posting questions on this forum. As Muslims we're all part of one Ummah and it's our DUTY to be here for one another in times of need. I don't think it's necessary for anyone to tell you that you'll be giving "bad impressions" to the rest of us because we are not here to impress one another. We're supposed to be "sounding boards" for each other and each other's questions so continue to post whatever questions you have.

 

[ShahnazZ]

I love you Thats all I can say atm

lol I'm glad I was able to help

 

[arzafar]

i never said your crazy!

i said that you probably need professional help. i think you're parents neglect you and i can relate to that very well. if only parents knew :angryred:
i hope you dont end up like me. do you talk to yourself?? you know imaginary friends and stuff? i had a few when i was young LOL!

you are probably very young, in which case, you shouldnt even be here! do your parents know you use internet? i think you have too much free time. you should find a good friend, and a useful hobby so that you dont have have time to "think" things like you have been noticing. Keep yourself active.

1. ask your teacher at school to give you extra homework, assignments
2. participate in school competitions. try to win em all but be fair.
3. go to the library and read, read, read
4. read, listen quran and pray often
5. share your new knowledge with your friends and elders at home. if they dont have time, post your knowledge on TTI. so next book you finish you will post the summary on TTI. OK!
6. write your own stories/poems/stuff and share it with us.

there is a whole world out there to be won and lost. dont waste time thinking about silly things and trying to find their meaning. If you believe something is wrong, you will find something wrong. Most of your problems seem to be your imagination. the memory part is worrying but once your brain is active, you'll get it back inshallah!

:salam2:

P.S. every crazy person says he is not crazy. LOL!
btw the above line was a joke OK. you are the cutest sister on TTI and you are NOT crazy.

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

i never said your crazy!

i said that you probably need professional help. i think you're parents neglect you and i can relate to that very well. if only parents knew :angryred:
i hope you dont end up like me. do you talk to yourself?? you know imaginary friends and stuff? i had a few when i was young LOL!

you are probably very young, in which case, you shouldnt even be here! do your parents know you use internet? i think you have too much free time. you should find a good friend, and a useful hobby so that you dont have have time to "think" things like you have been noticing. Keep yourself active.

1. ask your teacher at school to give you extra homework, assignments
2. participate in school competitions. try to win em all but be fair.
3. go to the library and read, read, read
4. read, listen quran and pray often
5. share your new knowledge with your friends and elders at home. if they dont have time, post your knowledge on TTI. so next book you finish you will post the summary on TTI. OK!
6. write your own stories/poems/stuff and share it with us.

there is a whole world out there to be won and lost. dont waste time thinking about silly things and trying to find their meaning. If you believe something is wrong, you will find something wrong. Most of your problems seem to be your imagination. the memory part is worrying but once your brain is active, you'll get it back inshallah!

:salam2:

P.S. every crazy person says he is not crazy. LOL!
btw the above line was a joke OK. you are the cutest sister on TTI and you are NOT crazy.

No brother you didnt. I know

You know, I do talk to myself :shymuslima1: lool. Thats not crazy is it???

Umm brother, I don't go to school no more I'm being homeschooled, and you barely get any work. Ohhh and I'm not THAT young, turning 16 soon inshaAllah. Why? Do I sound like a kid?? :shymuslima1: Or do I sound crazy??

Anyways, I'm glad you dont think I'm lol (I think)

"every crazy person says he is not crazy. LOL!" :angryblue: :angryred: LOL

 

[revert2007]

Sister, don't be ashamed of posting questions on this forum. As Muslims we're all part of one Ummah and it's our DUTY to be here for one another in times of need. I don't think it's necessary for anyone to tell you that you'll be giving "bad impressions" to the rest of us because we are not here to impress one another. We're supposed to be "sounding boards" for each other and each other's questions so continue to post whatever questions you have.

Well we have to remember that TTI is not only having Muslims are members but also non Muslims.And not all are trustable on TTI.There are always bad people around so thi might just lead to bad things.Allahu alam.We must try to talk to a few people personally instead of doing it publicly.There are many sisters over here.Why not pm them and talk about it.If I were the one,I don't want the rest of the world to know what is going on with mylife.I will only choose someone that I can trust and I can get honest answer from.

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

Well we have to remember that TTI is not only having Muslims are members but also non Muslims.And not all are trustable on TTI.There are always bad people around so thi might just lead to bad things.Allahu alam.We must try to talk to a few people personally instead of doing it publicly.There are many sisters over here.Why not pm them and talk about it.If I were the one,I don't want the rest of the world to know what is going on with mylife.I will only choose someone that I can trust and I can get honest answer from.

Sister you are right, I'm sorry. But sometimes I need to let it all out. And I cant just let it out on one person. When I express my feelings publicly, I feel like there are lots who care for me, and just that little feeling helps alot.

I'm sorry sister, if you feel that doing this isn't good then I understand I will try to stop InshaAllah. Thanks for your advice my dear sister. Love you for the sake of Allah

Wasalam

 

[slaveofAllah88]

aslam o aliakum wr wb,

OMG ur crazy no way im crazy u r so not crazy if ur crazy than everyone else is super super crazy comeon behna ur perfectly amazing

you know ur the most patient lil sis i know and ur amazing all those questions are asked were totally valid it happens to all of us and you part of our family and an important part of it your always cheering us up with ur jokes and smiles and the amazingly awesom avatar

comeon ur one of the best behna's around and u contribute so much to this community it just wont be same without u and no one calls u crazy we all think ur awesom

so i better be seeing lots of smile

 

[uddim004]

i don't know who called you insane but they are wrong. about noticing things at night- my mom told me the same thing. it happened to her. whilst at the same time in that room my sister didn't notice anything. it happened to my aunty as well. i believe that they are really good muslims. this is proberbly the case for you. people who are already on teh wrong path shataan does not need to stray them further. instead he comes after the strong and good muslims. my dad talked to an imam about this. maybe you should do the same thing. my aunty has a daughter who is unable to speak. she saw in her dream a being that was telling her that it had taken her daughters voice and it was coming after her. you see many other people may have similar experiances. for someone to call you insane is really wrong and shows a lack of compassion and respect towards others. my opinion is that you pray for allah for help and inshallah the problem will go away.:salam2:

 

[Almaas]

aslam o aliakum wr wb,

OMG ur crazy no way im crazy u r so not crazy if ur crazy than everyone else is super super crazy comeon behna ur perfectly amazing

you know ur the most patient lil sis i know and ur amazing all those questions are asked were totally valid it happens to all of us and you part of our family and an important part of it your always cheering us up with ur jokes and smiles and the amazingly awesom avatar

comeon ur one of the best behna's around and u contribute so much to this community it just wont be same without u and no one calls u crazy we all think ur awesom

so i better be seeing lots of smile

:salam2:

Walah, I totally agree

Mash'Allah you're too cute!

 

[Janaan]

Wa'alaikum salaam beloved ukhti....I read your thread and may Allah help you through your difficult situations btw. I have no idea who said you're crazy but don't listen to them ukhti, you're facing a moment of hardship, so focus on trying to make things better insha'allah. May ALLAH guide you through everything that's happening and will happen insha'allah.
Try to think about positive things, make the qur'an your companion, and think of Allah through this insha'allah!
Allah SWT said in 2:152;
Therefore remember Me (by praying, glorifying, etc.). I will remember you, and be grateful to Me (for My countless Favours on you) and never be ungrateful to Me.


I love you for the sake of Allah so take care and always smile

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

aslam o aliakum wr wb,

OMG ur crazy no way im crazy u r so not crazy if ur crazy than everyone else is super super crazy comeon behna ur perfectly amazing

you know ur the most patient lil sis i know and ur amazing all those questions are asked were totally valid it happens to all of us and you part of our family and an important part of it your always cheering us up with ur jokes and smiles and the amazingly awesom avatar

comeon ur one of the best behna's around and u contribute so much to this community it just wont be same without u and no one calls u crazy we all think ur awesom

so i better be seeing lots of smile

Walaikumu salam wr wb

Awww! That was so sweet. Thanks for making me feel better Its mostly my friends and my parents that think, or say I'm "insane" So thats why I felt like you might feel this way too.

Thankx again for your kind words my Big bro

Salaam

i don't know who called you insane but they are wrong. about noticing things at night- my mom told me the same thing. it happened to her. whilst at the same time in that room my sister didn't notice anything. it happened to my aunty as well. i believe that they are really good muslims. this is proberbly the case for you. people who are already on teh wrong path shataan does not need to stray them further. instead he comes after the strong and good muslims. my dad talked to an imam about this. maybe you should do the same thing. my aunty has a daughter who is unable to speak. she saw in her dream a being that was telling her that it had taken her daughters voice and it was coming after her. you see many other people may have similar experiances. for someone to call you insane is really wrong and shows a lack of compassion and respect towards others. my opinion is that you pray for allah for help and inshallah the problem will go away.:salam2:

JazakAllah brother/sister for your kind reply

Its really scarryy when something like that happens Makes you feel terrible. I pray that Allah helps and protects us all. Ameennn

:salam2:

Walah, I totally agree

Mash'Allah you're too cute!

Yay! That means I'm not crazy?! Yay!!! lool Okk now I do seem crazy But I'm NOT!! lol

Wa'alaikum salaam beloved ukhti....I read your thread and may Allah help you through your difficult situations btw. I have no idea who said you're crazy but don't listen to them ukhti, you're facing a moment of hardship, so focus on trying to make things better insha'allah. May ALLAH guide you through everything that's happening and will happen insha'allah.
Try to think about positive things, make the qur'an your companion, and think of Allah through this insha'allah!
Allah SWT said in 2:152;
Therefore remember Me (by praying, glorifying, etc.). I will remember you, and be grateful to Me (for My countless Favours on you) and never be ungrateful to Me.


I love you for the sake of Allah so take care and always smile

Awww that was beautiful. Especially the verse at the end MashaAllah.
Thankx for your kind words my dear sister I love youuu moreeee for the sake of Allah!! I'm glad you dont think I'm crazyyyy lol

Wasalam

 

[MutlekM]

:salam2:
I am in your shoes I seriously have memory problems my doctor says that i had too much second hand smoking(breathing in air close to somebody smoking) but alhamdullila i am much better now. But just because you hav memory problems dont mean your insane.
I hope you have better responses next time inshallah AMEEN

 

[slaveofAllah88]

Walaikumu salam wr wb

Awww! That was so sweet. Thanks for making me feel better Its mostly my friends and my parents that think, or say I'm "insane" So thats why I felt like you might feel this way too.

Thankx again for your kind words my Big bro

Salaam

:salam2:

im ur big bro right so u take my advice u r the best and no one can change that

u dont listen to people who doubt u ur perfect the way ALlah (swt) made u n ur smile keeps us all going

and ur patience is something that i look up to ur a great person
and ur in my duas