Young 'hung up on their bodies'

Are you hung up with the way you look?

  • I am a Muslim man & I am hung up with the way I look

    Votes: 2 8.7%
  • I am a Muslim woman & I am hung up with the way I look

    Votes: 3 13.0%
  • I am a Muslim man & I have never been hung up with the way I look

    Votes: 3 13.0%
  • I am a Muslim woman & I have never been hung up with the way I look

    Votes: 7 30.4%
  • I am a Muslim man & I used to be hung up with the way I look

    Votes: 4 17.4%
  • I am a Muslim woman & I used to be hung up with the way I look

    Votes: 4 17.4%

  • Total voters
    23
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Globalpeace

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Asslamo Allaikum,

Are you hung up?

Read the following article & the story of Sister Sara Bokker at http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=8163

And then answer the poll...

All I can say is Alhumdo-lillah for Islam & the Sunnah!

Young 'hung up on their bodies'

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/6376367.stm

Some 51% of young women would have surgery to improve their looks and a third of those who are a size 12 think they are overweight, a survey suggests.

BBC Radio 1's Newsbeat and 1xtra's TXU asked 25,000 people, mostly aged 17 to 34, how they felt about their bodies.

Almost half the women surveyed said they had skipped a meal to lose weight, while 8% had made themselves sick.

Eating disorder experts said it was "sad but not surprising" that young people felt and acted in such ways.

The survey found two thirds of those who are size 14 also thought they were overweight or fat.

Even with the celebrity emphasis on being size zero (UK size four), fewer than one in a hundred of those surveyed said they were that size.

Given the choice of ultra-skinny, thin and curvaceous, both men and women rated a curvy Martine McCutcheon as having the best body.

Half of the women questioned said there was "lots they would change" about their bodies - and more than 10% "hated" what they looked like.

Plastic surgery
Many people said they were trying to change their looks.

More than 20% of female respondents said that they were on a diet, compared with fewer than 10% of men.

And more than 50% of female respondents said they would consider having plastic surgery, compared with less than a quarter of men.

Breast enlargement was the most popular operation for women, while liposuction was the next most popular.

Liposuction and nose jobs were the most common choices for men.

The online survey found that even younger people had concerns over their looks.

More than half of girls aged 12 to 16 felt that their body image either stops them from getting a boyfriend or from relaxing in a relationship.

Male view
Young men also appear to feel the pressure to look good.

About 20% of those in their early 20s said that they have taken protein supplements in a bid to help themselves bulk up, compared with 11% of over 35s.

And when asked to rate photos of differently shaped male bodies, almost 80% of men and 65% of women favoured a very muscular physique.

Deanne Jade, a psychologist specialising in eating and body image issues, said the problems started with the emergence of thin models, such as Twiggy, in the 1960s.

"I think that was the start of a progression towards increasingly thinner role models. Marilyn Monroe would be trying to diet herself to a size zero if she was on the cinema screen now, which is such a shame."

A spokeswoman for Beating Eating Disorders, formerly the Eating Disorders Association, said there were an estimated 1.1 million people in the UK with eating disorders.

She said: "It is sad to read such statistics but not that surprising for us as we receive many calls from the age group mentioned and a lot younger.

"Research says that typical age of onset for an eating disorder is 14 to 25. Young people are affected by many issues at this present time with issues such as exams, bullying, family pressures.

"It's so important for people to develop a healthy perception of their bodies and to raise their self esteem and to develop positive ways of coping with the difficulties that life can bring."
 

alkathiri

As-Shafaa'i(Brother)
hello

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

WAllah You do not need to look Good , to feel Good

Wassalam
 

Ahmed_2000

Servant of Allah
Salaam Allaikum

I am muslim man who Used to be Hung up .. When i Was A Kid LOL.. :lol: :SMILY82:



salaam allaikum
 

Globalpeace

Banned
Asslamo Allaikum,

In my opinion we should avoid all extremes...

We shouldn't be hung up about looking good

AND

We shouldn't get careless to look trashy and rubbish

In the time of Sahaba (RA) it was detested for having a "belly". When you read the books of Fiqh and read about hanging trousers below the ankles (for men); the issue of belly is talked about in the sense of health reasons and not as a norm as most men today seem to have it...

So avoid all extremes and be on the middle Path.
 

MubarekMuslimah

Junior Member
salaams

I think it is good to take pride in our appearance and appear clean and groomed etc as we are taught in Islam. I also think its good to be aware of health aspects - such as being overweight can lead to health problems etc. But I do not think its good to be hung up on what the society you live in deems as beautiful

beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know my husband finds me beautiful even when I think I look my worst ( I am just recovering from food poisioning so you can imagine, lol!) and people I think are beautiful he does not. He is beautiful to me too even though he doesnt look exactly like the man I first met - when you love someone thye aere beautiful whatever they look like becasue you see more than their physicality.

Also - this society ( UK ) thinks tanned skin is beautiful and to be white and fair is 'pasty and pale'. Every magazine has adverts for tanning salons and sunbeds in it. Celebritites are becoming increasingly orange! But when I talk to Asians they tell me fair skin is favoured and when I look in Asian magazines I see things for skin bleaching! <yikes> Also - in this country slimness is favoured but in some African countries, the fuller figure is seen as more 'beautiful' - you can't win if you constantly try and suit society and its petty desires.

Basically dont be hung up on how you look cosmetically - Allah swt made you that way and HE thinks you are beautiful and thats all that matters.

Salaams
 

boupj

Junior Member
I am a Muslim woman who used ot be hung up on how I look, now I sort of still am but that's just because before I leave the house I want to be sure I'm completely covered, or else I feel uncomfortable.
 

Globalpeace

Banned
Asslamo Allaikum,

Wow! The poll is actually saying the complete opposite of BBC!

More women here are not hung up...Cool
 

Abdul-Raheem

Signing Out.....
:salam2:

I'm content and happy with my appearance. Being tall, dark and handsome who wouldn't be :biggrin: JK
Seriously though, Allah (swt) has blessed me with a fully functioning body and mind so I am grateful

wasalam
 

Globalpeace

Banned
Masha'Allah

Asslamo Allaikum,

You mean that there are 2 of us on this forum.

I knew that there was a reason why I liked you.

:astag: :astag: :astag:

:salam2:

I'm content and happy with my appearance. Being tall, dark and handsome who wouldn't be :biggrin: JK
Seriously though, Allah (swt) has blessed me with a fully functioning body and mind so I am grateful

wasalam
 
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