Muslimah99
Bosnian Muslimah
selamun aleykum everyone, I hope you are in your best state of health and imaan
I was wondering how come so many "modern" parents these days forbid their kids in marrying until they are like 23-25 for daughters for example and even older for sons, because they want them to become doctors? I understand if men can't afford it but if there are possibilities for them to get married, why hinder?
We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allah’s Messenger said, “O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power. (Al-Bukhari, Book 62, Hadith 4)
I was wondering how come so many "modern" parents these days forbid their kids in marrying until they are like 23-25 for daughters for example and even older for sons, because they want them to become doctors? I understand if men can't afford it but if there are possibilities for them to get married, why hinder?
We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allah’s Messenger said, “O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power. (Al-Bukhari, Book 62, Hadith 4)