cookiedough-123
Junior Member
i would like to first say a big hello to all who have come to the site non-muslim who is interested in islam welcome i hope u can take 5 mins of ur time to hear me . it would make me happy
i wanted to say something a little bit of advice. as im a revert and have had experience before being muslim.
it took me from the age of 14 till now which im 19 to be muslim long time. lol. alhumduALLAH . praise be to ALLAH . he opened my heart. im in a wondeerful place. i wanted to share somethin will u before i was just about to become muslim. i had studied islam on and off for years. at times i met some good muslims and some bad. ive had people share culture with religion and so on. for ur info its islam ur following not there culture so if u feel something werid ask if its cuture or relgion because sometime it can be a reel head banger . my advice is to discover islam from ur point of view not what over people think. surely its u who wants the answers to the questions that ur looking for. anyway i was comin to the point when i wanted to revert and i met a few sisters. i had come a little closer to islam as i was in a very strong community. a few sisters was forcing me to revert and i always sed i will if ALLAH wills it. they sed oh but what if u sleep and u dont wake up . oh u will go to hell as a un-beliver. at this point i was scared. and i wanted to get away from islam it just came tomuch for me. i felt i was being forced. i know islam isnt like this but i took in consideration that they are only trying to help and safe me from hell. bear in mind i knew a lot about islam for a non-beliver and they couldnt get it into there head why i wouldnt convert the reason why well i was in a haram realationship and there was no way i would go into islam free from sins just to go bk into haram. at that time if i left the person i was staying with i would be homeless. so anyway by this time i had seen two women covert in front of my eyes and my muslims friends kept lookin at me sayin do it do it. but i kept pullin bk i just want to go home and curl up and just be on my own to think for a second. so i went home i had loads of books on islam to read on my way home i didnt want to. so when i went home i just sat down and sed to myself right what do i want in my life. islam isnt as hard they think. what i read in the quran and sunnah seems to be a dream to live why are they making islam seem so hard yet i cant revert?. so i sat down next to my patner and sed i want to be muslim he was shocked , so i took my shahada the next day with two male witness . i had never felt so much off my shoulders and i swear its the best feeling i want it every time i take a shower lol. my patner is muslim and was on his way the next day to go kuwait . so i had at least a month on my own to get a place. he sed he would always help me out with money.
at this time i wasnt allowed to marry him his father wouldnt allow it. so u could imagine what i felt like. but in my heart i sed to myself no i have ALLAH what ever he wills he will make happen so i made dua every single day for me and him to be together. and one day out of the blue his father sed yes. at that moment i knew it wasnt fate that did this it was ALLAH. and i know this in my heart. ALHUMDUALLAH im living in kuwait now. and its all due to paitence. where hardship lies sooon finds rest.
i will say this to u. if u feel u are being pushed into islam just take a deep breath , learn what u would like to know and just take ur time remember this is ur path and only ALLAH we open ur heart at the right time. at times it may seem some people are trying to tell u too much and u get confused and u dont want to know just tell this person in order to understand someone who is tellin u about islam and u feel puzzled or a bit pushed .understand they do want the best for u and what to feel the happiniess they feel. islam is surely a understanding relgion .
no one will understand islam over night nor even the rest of there lives because there is so much to learn i. if u have that intention to do something even ALLAH rewards u for this. it takes time. and know that if u feel pushed just take a moment for ur self and read for urself . if unsure just ask a question.
and for the muslims
who read this i have noticed a few non-muslims comin off the site and they have told certain muslims to back off. let them have there space and time to know islam for themselves. DONT FORCE THEM. it takes time
we all knows as muslims. ALLAH seals some hearts of some people and some he doesnt. the best thing is that they want to know about islam. lets not force anyone into something there still not too sure about. this is from my experience. and i understand how it feels. we want people to come to islam not scare them. i hope brothers and sisters u see my point, im sayin this because i love u and its our kinship that we help non-muslims too this wonderful religion. salama alikum and love u all for the sake of ALLAH. lets share somethin ALLAH has already given us and help
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i wanted to say something a little bit of advice. as im a revert and have had experience before being muslim.
it took me from the age of 14 till now which im 19 to be muslim long time. lol. alhumduALLAH . praise be to ALLAH . he opened my heart. im in a wondeerful place. i wanted to share somethin will u before i was just about to become muslim. i had studied islam on and off for years. at times i met some good muslims and some bad. ive had people share culture with religion and so on. for ur info its islam ur following not there culture so if u feel something werid ask if its cuture or relgion because sometime it can be a reel head banger . my advice is to discover islam from ur point of view not what over people think. surely its u who wants the answers to the questions that ur looking for. anyway i was comin to the point when i wanted to revert and i met a few sisters. i had come a little closer to islam as i was in a very strong community. a few sisters was forcing me to revert and i always sed i will if ALLAH wills it. they sed oh but what if u sleep and u dont wake up . oh u will go to hell as a un-beliver. at this point i was scared. and i wanted to get away from islam it just came tomuch for me. i felt i was being forced. i know islam isnt like this but i took in consideration that they are only trying to help and safe me from hell. bear in mind i knew a lot about islam for a non-beliver and they couldnt get it into there head why i wouldnt convert the reason why well i was in a haram realationship and there was no way i would go into islam free from sins just to go bk into haram. at that time if i left the person i was staying with i would be homeless. so anyway by this time i had seen two women covert in front of my eyes and my muslims friends kept lookin at me sayin do it do it. but i kept pullin bk i just want to go home and curl up and just be on my own to think for a second. so i went home i had loads of books on islam to read on my way home i didnt want to. so when i went home i just sat down and sed to myself right what do i want in my life. islam isnt as hard they think. what i read in the quran and sunnah seems to be a dream to live why are they making islam seem so hard yet i cant revert?. so i sat down next to my patner and sed i want to be muslim he was shocked , so i took my shahada the next day with two male witness . i had never felt so much off my shoulders and i swear its the best feeling i want it every time i take a shower lol. my patner is muslim and was on his way the next day to go kuwait . so i had at least a month on my own to get a place. he sed he would always help me out with money.
at this time i wasnt allowed to marry him his father wouldnt allow it. so u could imagine what i felt like. but in my heart i sed to myself no i have ALLAH what ever he wills he will make happen so i made dua every single day for me and him to be together. and one day out of the blue his father sed yes. at that moment i knew it wasnt fate that did this it was ALLAH. and i know this in my heart. ALHUMDUALLAH im living in kuwait now. and its all due to paitence. where hardship lies sooon finds rest.
i will say this to u. if u feel u are being pushed into islam just take a deep breath , learn what u would like to know and just take ur time remember this is ur path and only ALLAH we open ur heart at the right time. at times it may seem some people are trying to tell u too much and u get confused and u dont want to know just tell this person in order to understand someone who is tellin u about islam and u feel puzzled or a bit pushed .understand they do want the best for u and what to feel the happiniess they feel. islam is surely a understanding relgion .
no one will understand islam over night nor even the rest of there lives because there is so much to learn i. if u have that intention to do something even ALLAH rewards u for this. it takes time. and know that if u feel pushed just take a moment for ur self and read for urself . if unsure just ask a question.
and for the muslims
who read this i have noticed a few non-muslims comin off the site and they have told certain muslims to back off. let them have there space and time to know islam for themselves. DONT FORCE THEM. it takes time
we all knows as muslims. ALLAH seals some hearts of some people and some he doesnt. the best thing is that they want to know about islam. lets not force anyone into something there still not too sure about. this is from my experience. and i understand how it feels. we want people to come to islam not scare them. i hope brothers and sisters u see my point, im sayin this because i love u and its our kinship that we help non-muslims too this wonderful religion. salama alikum and love u all for the sake of ALLAH. lets share somethin ALLAH has already given us and help
:tti_sister: