Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
Assalam alakum
Do you have hard time, trying to be nice to parents and it feels like its hard to ''shower your mercy wings'' over them for different reasons ? Maybe you dont have same ideas, views about life, maybe they dont let you do things you want or maybe something else happens between you and them, so this cause you to have hard time being sooo nice to them like you were before when you was younger. Because when you were younger you didnt care many things in life so you were just hugging your parents, kissing, over and over again but now things changed, you have your life, you have your ideas and things you wanna do, but parents are not in same idea with you and if you dont do what they tell you to do, you may gain their discontent and this can lead you to hell (Allah knows best)...
Anyone who know what i am talking about ? And if you do have such situation at house, what you do ? Do you just try not to get angry or upset with them no matter what even though you cant be like before (hugging them, kissing them, always loving them) ?
Do you have hard time, trying to be nice to parents and it feels like its hard to ''shower your mercy wings'' over them for different reasons ? Maybe you dont have same ideas, views about life, maybe they dont let you do things you want or maybe something else happens between you and them, so this cause you to have hard time being sooo nice to them like you were before when you was younger. Because when you were younger you didnt care many things in life so you were just hugging your parents, kissing, over and over again but now things changed, you have your life, you have your ideas and things you wanna do, but parents are not in same idea with you and if you dont do what they tell you to do, you may gain their discontent and this can lead you to hell (Allah knows best)...
Anyone who know what i am talking about ? And if you do have such situation at house, what you do ? Do you just try not to get angry or upset with them no matter what even though you cant be like before (hugging them, kissing them, always loving them) ?