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Mashallah it is very good that you started HALAQAH at the masjid. Its also wonderful that you also started wonderful activities in the halaqah....The next step would be to call the sisters from your school to join the halaqah. This might be difficult. Try to incite them materialistically. Try to organize any event that interests the sisters. Ask the sisters in your school to come play with you...etc.....so invite them materialistically and after them give your message..

Sister the things are pretty simple but we humans make them complicated. They are as easy as you could imagine.

Regarding physical fights...dont ever ever ever fight with one in the school premises. You will loose alot while they will lose less. If you want to beat up some one then do outside the school.

Allah guides whom he wills...neither you can guide some one nor i can without the mercy of allah..You job is just to tell them after that its their responsibility either to accept it or to reject it. Your will not be held responsible for their actions and reactions caused by that action. Dont try to argue with them in simple matters. Argument is worse thing that you would do...SO NEVER EVER ARGUE.....try to avoid it as much as possible.

Assalamo Alaikom Wr Wb sister

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

“The gates of Paradise will be opened on Mondays and on Thursdays, and every servant [of Allah] who associates nothing with Allah will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. [About them] it will be said: ‘Delay these two until they are reconciled; delay these two until they are reconciled.’”

[Muslim, Abu Dawood, and Malik]

Wa Alaikom Assalam Wr Wb

salaam alaikom r

dear sister read what i send you to your hotmail msn its urgent .

i need to talk to you about it and please tell me what you think

okay let me log off and log back on again..it does happen often..it says i'm online..when i'm actually d/c..SIGH..please bear with me

no ur not. i can't see you online. i don't know why. and ur not replying.

I'm online sis

salaam alikom dear sister

i am back but i will only share in the sisters only area .

i guess this will be better inshAllah for me

talk to you soon inshAllah

been talking to them ever since i met them and nothing seems to get through to them. Allah swt sees that i've done my best, i can't force them to be better people, i can only advice and i have done so over many times. so now, the decision is theirs, there's no need for me to keep going after them. it is those who listen and who give me their attention and who willingly come to the halaqah that need me to speak to them rather than those who laugh at me almost everytime. besides, they yell and scream even when i talk to them peacefully. i wanna avoid physical fights, because i know it's gonna end up there if i keep provoking them with my advices. they are old enough to make their own choices. so let them be. Allah swt knows that i've tried. on the bright side the girls at the halaqah are wonderful...we do fun activities and i'm just trying to get the sisters to unite. i hope that more will join each week inshaAllah. ameen.
asalamu alaykum wrwb.=)

Brother zahid, you are funny. sorry, i guess i'm just laughing at how simple you make the whole thing seem...but it's not that easy. i've dropped even speaking to them because their purpose is to provoke my anger. they purposely say things about the deen, to provoke my anger,and when i try to explain things calmly to them, they just laugh their heads off. i already started a halaqah at the masjid, which i invited them all to..but NOT ONE GIRL FROM THAT GROUP came. they argue over simple matters, and when u explain they say "oh look who is talking, the shaykhat". i explain to them that i am not a shaykhat, anda that it would be an honor to become one. but they backbite behind my back. so there's no point in talking to heedless people. i've

Inshallah handle stuff with hikmah and inshallah slowly and slowly you will see the result.

Dont worry you didn't bored me to death...it took me less than 5 minutes to read what you wrote.

and still you were criticizing this Ulema..on the day of Judgement this Ulema will be allowed to steal or snatch away your good deeds. Your good deeds will be given to this ulema. If you do it every now and then i must say that all of your good deeds will given away....Do you guys want that.....do you want you good deeds to be given away or not?????if you dont want your good deeds to be given away they you should stop criticizing ulemas and focus on yourself."


Okay this was just an example. I would seriously urge you to listen to zakir naik lectures and if some one asks you any question then answer exactly the same way that he (zakir naik) did.

After that tell each friend to befriend with other muslims and call them towards prayers. They might be rude and annoying but atlast they will accept it.

As a result of this you will have mashallah great muslim friends who will atleast pray and try to learn about their religion. You can ignore the non-muslims for a while until you are junior or senior.

If they try to insult Ulama...then guide them with hikmah...tell them "Ulema will go to their grave and you will go to your grave. Atleast these Ulemas pray and call others towards prayer..What do you guys do???tell me seriously???did i saw you any one praying or calling others to prayer???....Now let me tell you of one thing which you may or may not have heard before...
On the day of Judgement you will be responsible for each and every word that came out of your mouth. Imagine you criticized any Ulema ...but he did not any wrong ...he was on haq....

Mashallah 4.5/5 is a nice score. Keep it up and inshallah you will get the same result this time. Inshallah...try to maintain your average above 95%. It will be very beneficial for you in college.

I know writing is your thing. Remember those speeches. lol...:jumpclap:

You will win the race ....IN YOUR DREAMS....lol....i will ride the car and will win the race..hahah..

back to seriousness ....I completely understand what you are saying about high school student. There are not mature and try to make fun of every thing.

There are two things that you want to do. To call muslims towards the deen. To call non-muslims towards the Islam. In high school both these tasks are very difficult to conduct since most of them are immature.

However still then you should try to make good solid friends who are steadfast on deen. Make arrangements on day to day basis with them to learn about the deen (thats called HALAQA).

brother i think i may have written too much for you to read. i can fill a book with my complaints hope you do well in life...*sigh* ya rab.

and what's worse they laugh at me( i laugh on the inside because i laugh at their ignorance and the fact that they laugh at me while they can't even correct their own mistakes and thoughts). seriously they need to be sent to the hospital...they need MASSIVE MASSIVE, HUGE HUGE AND I MEAN REALLY HUGE HELP. THEY'RE WORSE THEN THE IGNORANT NON MUSLIMS IN MY VIEWS

so im trying to help them straighten out. and then in school i'm stuck between the muslims and the non muslims...it's like the tug of war. the muslims are so ignorant in my school that they argue over simple matters while they do not even know the basics of islam...they're loud and everyone complains about them...they fight each other half the time, and when one fight ends they start another...then now they mock and slander the 'ulama and they try to get me involved so that perhaps they can have a fight with me( i'm trying to avoid it but it's geting more and mroe difficult. they think i'm a shaykhat and try to annoy me by insulting the deen and denying what the prophet s.a.w said half the time ya rab!) .

Walaykum wasalam brother zahid, actually i'm going to execute my plans inshaAllah although they're many and difficult i must say. as for the MCA, we took writing last year and got the results in the summer and i passed with 4.5 out of 5. alhamdulillah and this year we took reading, so i think i passed that as well. it seemed easy and writing and reading are my thing. so inshaAllah hope i passed. trust me, i will win the race against you girls always win how huge are my plans? well i must say, i'm working on a writing a book which i currently have started...then the muslims at my school and in my community are corrupt and ignorant...

:salam2: sister:

How was MCA???i hope you did good....did you?? i never took it when i was in H.S....They were sending me letters to take the PSAT but i completely ignored them and took the SAT directly.

Mashallah you are graduating in two years ....that is good to know..i am also graduating in two years....aha....lets see who wins the race... :fighta:.....

College is going okay..mashallah college in my second home..i am there most of the time...the bad thing about college is that we dont get free lunch.. .while you do in h.s.....


P.S...Mashallah you have huge plans .....how hugeeeeee they are??? are you planing to execute them or will they remain plans only???/

Finally!!! we're NOT playing tag through visitor messages lol see ya in a minute

wa alaikom assalam wr wb