Hopetogoparadis
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Assalam alakum
If a Muslim who you knew through internet for 1-2 years and from another country (Pakistan) asks you for money, is it better if you send money without questioning him about his situation, because you know if he is telling truth he may get offended by your questioning, ''Why you are asking me ? Dont you believe me ? I am sad...'' Because you know, there is a verse in Quran, saying that a nice word is better than giving charity which comes with bad word (dont remember exacty verse, but it meant like that i think). And you know, if he is really loved by Allah, then maybe Allah will punish us for making his serveant sad. But in other hand, you just dont know whether he is really needing that money or ...
There is this person who asked me for help. And Allahu aleem, when we talk normally, like when there is no money issue, we are just fine, i feel pity for him, they seem to be a poor family and i believe whatever he says, he seems to be a good person mashallah. But when its about money then doubts come my mind. I dont know whether i should help him thinking that ''even if he is lying, Allah will accept it'' or do you think my doubts are actually normal ? Honestly i dont wanna be punished for not helping him because maybe Allah is testing me. But in other hand i dont feel good about i
If a Muslim who you knew through internet for 1-2 years and from another country (Pakistan) asks you for money, is it better if you send money without questioning him about his situation, because you know if he is telling truth he may get offended by your questioning, ''Why you are asking me ? Dont you believe me ? I am sad...'' Because you know, there is a verse in Quran, saying that a nice word is better than giving charity which comes with bad word (dont remember exacty verse, but it meant like that i think). And you know, if he is really loved by Allah, then maybe Allah will punish us for making his serveant sad. But in other hand, you just dont know whether he is really needing that money or ...
There is this person who asked me for help. And Allahu aleem, when we talk normally, like when there is no money issue, we are just fine, i feel pity for him, they seem to be a poor family and i believe whatever he says, he seems to be a good person mashallah. But when its about money then doubts come my mind. I dont know whether i should help him thinking that ''even if he is lying, Allah will accept it'' or do you think my doubts are actually normal ? Honestly i dont wanna be punished for not helping him because maybe Allah is testing me. But in other hand i dont feel good about i