muslimah 2
Junior Member
salam ,i dnt really write mush on this forum so alot of you may not really know me. i have been a little depressd for a while because of my hubby.We have lovely bright children but since about a year he has become a little different towards them,getting angry and shouting if they dnt pray on time .my eldest is only 14 and he gets really upset with this sudden change. My hubby is always going on about hw hard it is to bring children up in the west and he thinks being strict is the only way forward .He wont even let them speak english at home anymore they have to be speaking only urdu or else he will get very angry .Hehas never laid a fingr on them but it seems like he still manages to hurt them like he stops talikng to thwm ,or shouts .He has even sterted sneaking up on them so he can catch them speaking english .He is making it out like its a sin!he is from india but has been in the west for 20 yrs so i dnt undrestand y hes doing this .The children have started to relly go quiet in front of him incase they dnt speak urdy properly because he gives them a look if they speak it wrongso they really feeling down and its really depressing me so much if ialk to him about this he says its all my fault they going too westernised.He stops talking to me if i stick up fot them so i really need some advice plspls help.Should i leave him coz i relly cant take this every single day ,he has even said the kids r better off without him if i wont let him bring them up properly Idont no what to do ,hes a good father in the sense that he takes them out a lot and spends on us like properly hes kind to me and says he loves me too so im really confused, is there anything i can do pls pls help