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Thats great news sister mashaAllah, you finally get the guy workingYeah it is working now that I finally "BROKE" him......like I said....put him in his place........I believe you have to do that! You have to show them they are not the be all and end all of who you are! Life can exist without them and when they see you mean it......sometimes they shape up......it took me years of embarrassing him about "not being manly" because he doesn't do manly chores, I do....so I told him if he wants to be the Man of the HOUSE.....stop leaving the man work to me! I had to break the man he became to get him to the man I wanted him to be. Plain and simple......