dianek
Junior Member
Salaam,
In an earlier post I responded to you and stated something to the effect you will find yourself seeking the company of Muslim women as you become more comfortable with Islam. You just have to be creative and find a new way to chill.
Also, Muslim women enjoy spending time with their children. It is considered an honor and a major responisbility. So we tend to create activities that include the children. The foucs is the family..with hubby going out as needed. It is a choice for women. I do not know many Muslim women who need to have a " girls night out" we are kinda of, sorta boring and spend time with our little treasures.
Good luck.
Well, I always need a mental health break.......where do you draw any excitement out of life. Gosh.....I want to do things like sky diving and deep sea diving......I want to feel that I lived some while I was here. And yes I love my babies, but there has to be something when they are all grown up and if you abandon yourself soleley to being a mother and wife, then where does that leave you when your house is empty? I bore easily! I do enjoy my children but the constant bickering and mess making that makes me insane in conjunction with working full time it is very draining. There has to be a way to VENT!!!!! Thank God though, my husband is taking me away next Friday without our kids so that he and I can spend some time alone in the Mountains!!! Can't wait. And if he backs out, be sure there will be a body being shipped back to Tunis....(just kidding, but a price will be paid!) My kids DO NOT know how to behave.....they are hyper and obnoxious and after 8 hours + at work, I have NO tolerance for it. Maybe my husband should work harder so i can stay home....wouldn't that be wonderful....