salam
i dunno if u can make 'user cp' not to be there coz it is in the same line wiht search, calendar, new posts.
U have to log in first and if u dont see it click on ...private messages undeer your id in the right..ull see link to list subscriptions in the left where there are all your threads started or where you posted. User cp shows your answered posts since the last time u signed in if i am not wrong.