Assalaam walaikum,
Dear Jamafg
Son, please be respectful on this forum. Please do not judge. I do believe at my age I know the difference between the Path to Sirat and the duyna. I have walked away from the duyna. I know how easy it is to live in the duyna. I know the duyna promised me success in this world and I said no.
Son do you really know why I walk alone. Are you so insulated from the world that you are unaware of the plight of Muslim women in non-Muslim countries.
Are you not aware of the Muslim women who raise children by themselves and raise their childen to be Muslim men. I drive my sons to jumma. I have had to change my schedule. I drive 15 to 20 miles in excess of the speed limit to pick them up and arrive on time to jumma. Insha'Allah next year my oldest son will be able to drive.
I see that you are new on this site. This is an international site. Please be patient and learn with us. The issues that are discussed are relevant to an international audience which cover Islam all over the world.
Insha'Allah my words will make sense to you.
Bismillahe Rahmaner Rahim
First of all sorry I’m not your Son, secondly I’ll never respect anyone who’s not respecting my Deen!!!
I think you do not make the difference between what are Allah SWT commandments and what’s the west Requirements.
Can you tell me where is your Husband who’s responsible for the works you doing (taken children to Mosque or what so ever)?
It’s your Husband job to take your children to Mosque or for prayer, and school, as any other outside job or work, not you, but if you considering yourself as a western woman, then is fine, but for a Muslim woman, her most important duty is looking after her Husband and children inside the family house not outside, but if they kick their Husband and claim them self as the boss, then is something different.
Viewing my personal experience in West since 30 years, you the women, when you coming here, then you brain change his normality and then you taking the advantage of being in the West and copying the western women. You’re forgetting your duty toward your Husband and Family. You saying ohhh, now we’re free, equal to men and our Husbands or Father or Brothers haven’t any right to interfere in our personal life, if they do then they will be sent to prison with the help of western police and unIslamic law. Sorry for my words, but you know very well, that I’m saying you the true.
Also for your kind information, my sons have already their Driving Licences since long ago, so you can imagine my age and knowledge about my wonderful deen. I spend more than 30 years in West, but Alhamdulillah, never done anything wrong which are prohibited in my religion, and always followed the way of our beloved Prophet Mohammad Mustapha PBUH and the Holly Quran. Also I’m not new in this site. I’m personally spending lot of time for Dawah and trying with all my energy to spread Islam. One the great thing is that I remarry a non Muslim and with the help of Allah SWT turn her to Islam and she’s much better than my Muslim Wife(X). She knows her duty toward me, her family, children and follows the commandments of Allah SWT, wearing hijab and never saying oh I’m equal with you. She Know the place and responsibilities of a man/Husband and a woman/Wife.
Finally you saying that this is international site and that mean you ask me not to say the truth about my religion and condemns the weakness of some people who destroying the name of Islam with their personal problem.
Finally we shouldn’t mix up the Emotion, Deen, Dunya and Akhirat. Our final destiny is our grave and then the day of judgement (Akhirat), where the power or welt of this world will not be useful for anyone.
My Allah show everyone the way of Islamic life and make us the best Ummah with Khairil Akhirat Inshallah
A salato wa salam ala Rassoul al Karim, wal Hamdulillahi Rabil Allameen