cmelbouzaidi
Junior Member
Thank you for all the references brother, I will chack them out insh'Allah -- lots to read!!
i HAVE TO APOLOGISE FOR BEING SO IMPATIENT, ANXIOUS AND PANICKING ABOUT THOSE SITES - WANTING EVERYTHING STRAIGHT AWAY
THAT IS WHAT SHAITAN DOES TO US
ALLAH TRULY LOVES THOSE WHO ARE PATIENT, A SISTER SAID TO US QUOTING THE QURAN AND HADITHS YESTERDAY AT THE ISLAMIC CENTRE, SHE WAS GIVING A TALK ON PATIENCE - SHE SOUNDED SO MUCH LIKE SHE WAS MAKING REFERENCE TO WHAT HAD HAPPENED TO ME THE NIGHT BEFORE -GIVING EXAMPLES OF EXACTLY HOW I FELT AND WHAT I DID - EVEN THOUGH SHE WAS TALKING TO EVERYBODY THERE AND NOBODY KNEW WHAT HAD HAPPENED TO ME!!
SHE SAID THAT PATIENCE MAKES UP HALF OF OUR IMAAN AND TO STAY CALM AND MODERATE AND IF YOU HAVE DOUBTS AND PANICK, NOT TO GO STRAIGHT TO OTHERS FOR HELP - GO TO ALLAH WHO IS ALWAYS WITH US WHEREVER WE GO - FIRST GO TO ALLAH SHE SAID THEN YOU CAN ASK FOR ADVICE
SO PLEASE ACCEPT MY APOLOGIES FOR PUTTING THOSE NASTY LINKS ON THE FORUM AND FOR BEING SO IMPATIENT
THANK YOU ALL FOR THE REFERENCES I WILL BE CHECKING THEM OUT (SLOWLY SLOWLY) WITH PATIENCE!
:salam2: no need to apologize dear sister. i got into negative discussion with someone anti-islam several months ago on youtube and i was asked to look at some negative websites, too. i had already been a muslim for a number of years and it still got me down. however, Alhamdulillah, it kind of prompted me to do more research for myself and my faith became stronger. i had answers for everything the person was challenging but at a certain point after being polite yet firm, i just had to let that go and continue learning for myself.
we are here to support one another and lean on each other in times of need, we are family afterall
keep on the quest for truth, it is our duty to do so.
May Allah protect you and keep you on the right path, ameen.