Assalaam walaikum,
You know sister..if I had known babies are so much joy..I know I would have had my first at 13 and kept going..
Assalaam walaikum,
You know sister..if I had known babies are so much joy..I know I would have had my first at 13 and kept going..
Assalaam walaikum,
I looked at many threads and they are depressing. I am not depressed nor do I wish to be depressed.
There is much right in the world. Let's share what is right for one minute. Let us give thanks, Alhumdullila.
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What should a person do if she/he takes pleasure in being depressed?
And feels it's his/her innate nature? Should that person go to a doctor?
:salam2: sister,
how can anyone take pleasure in being depressed? Pleasure and pain do not go together and believe me, depression causes emotional pain.
If it is effecting your daily life---please do see a doctor ASAP. Hold on tight to the remembrance of Allaah, He will let us get out of it insha'Allah.
Assalaam walaikum,
Make your mouth moist with the remembrance of Allah.
Read the Quran
Look at your diet. Add a little physical activity.
( when I am down...I love human company...I call upon my sisters and we laugh...)
Visit the sick; bake a cake; take a walk; walk to the masjid...
Read upon Islam; surround yourself with Muslims.
Play with your children...my are older teenagers but I will still play with them once in a blue moon..
There is one word that changes sorrow into joy: Alhumdullila.
Walaikum assalam
Hey sis that was not about me........okay
and some people do take pleasure in being depressed.
pssst..... you were opting for psychology????
:salam2:
What should a person do if she/he takes pleasure in being depressed?
And feels it's his/her innate nature? Should that person go to a doctor?
Sister,I know and have seen people taking pleasure in being depressed.It's actually a fad nowadays.They create unnecessary wall around them and fill themselves with sorrow and depression.It's mostly teenagers who do it and it's also kind of a fashion statements,(goth/emo).This is also being taught by a media on a sub conscious level.People especially kids/teenagers are being programmed to believe in such things.
This is further amplified with people going to other ideologies and following them rather than sticking to the deen of the nature that they were created upon.Covered in this darkness,they try to find solace in it,except that there is none.This is what happens when anyone other than Allah is sought.
Such people should be warned that they are going down a hole right now,out of which coming out is impossible.No one's innate nature is to be depressed,sister,it's a self imposed idea.An idea that eventually becomes that person's reality.
The mask that we wear eventually sticks to our faces and become us.We become what we were posing to be.Would a person like to be depressed all their lives?NO.
It wouldn't help you function,interact socially and become sorry case of existence.
The true knowledge of what self is from Qur'an and sunnah will help that person insha'Allah come out from such a false belief that makes them end up being depressed.
Also a visit to a Doctor is needed.