Assalaam walaikum,
Shahnaz...let the old one explain why men like younger things...
Young girls are cute. They are happy. You can take a young girl on a carnival ride and she is thrilled. A more mature woman demands much more.
I always think of the wives of the Prophet, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
I am always amused by the youngest. She was a test to him. Here is the Prophet of Allah, the Mercy to mankind, and his wife sleeps and lets the goats eat the dough. She is busy with her dolls and jewelry. She weeps when her feelings get hurt. etc. etc. She was a joy to him.
However, when the Prophet of Allah, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, was in need of understanding it was the older woman. The one who knew the affairs of the world and how to be a successful person.
Here we have two examples to follow. A young wife will make you happy. She will sport with you, I believe are the famous words. An older woman will support you.
The choice is there.
Too, there is nothing in Islam that states women have to marry older men. Women can marry younger men.
As I wrote before why are you guys limiting yourselves.
Shahnaz...let the old one explain why men like younger things...
Young girls are cute. They are happy. You can take a young girl on a carnival ride and she is thrilled. A more mature woman demands much more.
I always think of the wives of the Prophet, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
I am always amused by the youngest. She was a test to him. Here is the Prophet of Allah, the Mercy to mankind, and his wife sleeps and lets the goats eat the dough. She is busy with her dolls and jewelry. She weeps when her feelings get hurt. etc. etc. She was a joy to him.
However, when the Prophet of Allah, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, was in need of understanding it was the older woman. The one who knew the affairs of the world and how to be a successful person.
Here we have two examples to follow. A young wife will make you happy. She will sport with you, I believe are the famous words. An older woman will support you.
The choice is there.
Too, there is nothing in Islam that states women have to marry older men. Women can marry younger men.
As I wrote before why are you guys limiting yourselves.