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Rabbe Zidni Illma
Assalaamualaikum,
Frankly, am under-qualified to comment on this post.. As even i face such issues from my mother once in a while.. It's pretty bad to hear that your father treats you that way sister.. Very bad indeed.. I do empathize and understand how you would be feeling.. I know not of a solution for your problem..
But only thing I can tell you is that Allah(SWT) is watching you, the angels are writing all your deeds down.. And am sure you will be given glad tidings for all your deeds you are doing for your parents.. This is what i think whenever i don't get a good treatment for something nice i have done.. I don't know has the world become this way, because even i feel at times that - people don't see the good things you do, they only want to point out that you are not his, you are not that.. For example if i speak the truth, it's because i am very much scared of Judgment Day and for my personal satisfaction.. Nobody gives a damn whether i speak the truth or not.. They don't care about it.. They are happy with you as long as you say them what they want to hear.. Be it the truth or a lie.. If somebody could help me with this view point of mine, i would be glad?? Pls..
And to you sis Precious Star - I shall keep you in my prayers.
Be patient, think about the scene where you will be standing in front of Allah(SWT), All the prophets(pbu them all), the entire human race.. And the angel of the right-hand side will be telling out your deeds in regard to your parents.. Just imagine how our Allah(SWT) and Prophets(pbu them all) would be happy, with all smiles on their faces[the Prophets(pbu them all)], giving you glad tidings.. [If given a chance i would run down to you give you a hug too elder sis LOL!!]
Peace
Frankly, am under-qualified to comment on this post.. As even i face such issues from my mother once in a while.. It's pretty bad to hear that your father treats you that way sister.. Very bad indeed.. I do empathize and understand how you would be feeling.. I know not of a solution for your problem..
But only thing I can tell you is that Allah(SWT) is watching you, the angels are writing all your deeds down.. And am sure you will be given glad tidings for all your deeds you are doing for your parents.. This is what i think whenever i don't get a good treatment for something nice i have done.. I don't know has the world become this way, because even i feel at times that - people don't see the good things you do, they only want to point out that you are not his, you are not that.. For example if i speak the truth, it's because i am very much scared of Judgment Day and for my personal satisfaction.. Nobody gives a damn whether i speak the truth or not.. They don't care about it.. They are happy with you as long as you say them what they want to hear.. Be it the truth or a lie.. If somebody could help me with this view point of mine, i would be glad?? Pls..
And to you sis Precious Star - I shall keep you in my prayers.
Be patient, think about the scene where you will be standing in front of Allah(SWT), All the prophets(pbu them all), the entire human race.. And the angel of the right-hand side will be telling out your deeds in regard to your parents.. Just imagine how our Allah(SWT) and Prophets(pbu them all) would be happy, with all smiles on their faces[the Prophets(pbu them all)], giving you glad tidings.. [If given a chance i would run down to you give you a hug too elder sis LOL!!]
Peace