lostlilly07
striving 4 Firadous
Asslamu alaikum everyone and I hope this reaches everyone in good health and strong faith
Well really I just want some input or thoughts of my situation
Today while I was out with my mother we were talking about my family and I became really depressed to point where it brought tears to my eyes even as I write this it brings to tears to my eyes. Anyway You see I come from a family that tends to break apart with each genearation when my mother was a child her mother died( my grandmother) and because of that her and brothers are not close ; therefore leaving me with questions about family but not have any resources to get answers. Now that I am older ( i am 21) I have 1 sister and 3 brothers and I am starting to same think happen to us. When I ask the quetion: when ask my mother when will it stop: you know the breaking apart she tried to tell me about the story of Noah.
Now I felt that was extreme I Have 2 brothers who are not currently muslim but doesn't islam put emphasis on family like don't cut off kin, and I really don't think my family compares to Noah's wife and son
You know I don't have children yet but I hate to bring children into world only to know that when they get older they too will fall towards the help of strangers then their own family
I wonder are families suppose to fall apart ?
Well really I just want some input or thoughts of my situation
Today while I was out with my mother we were talking about my family and I became really depressed to point where it brought tears to my eyes even as I write this it brings to tears to my eyes. Anyway You see I come from a family that tends to break apart with each genearation when my mother was a child her mother died( my grandmother) and because of that her and brothers are not close ; therefore leaving me with questions about family but not have any resources to get answers. Now that I am older ( i am 21) I have 1 sister and 3 brothers and I am starting to same think happen to us. When I ask the quetion: when ask my mother when will it stop: you know the breaking apart she tried to tell me about the story of Noah.
Now I felt that was extreme I Have 2 brothers who are not currently muslim but doesn't islam put emphasis on family like don't cut off kin, and I really don't think my family compares to Noah's wife and son
You know I don't have children yet but I hate to bring children into world only to know that when they get older they too will fall towards the help of strangers then their own family
I wonder are families suppose to fall apart ?