palestine
Servant of Allah
asalamu alaykum wrwb. dear brothers and sisters i believe that self control is really important in our daily lives because so often we face difficulties or hardships and we need to know how to deal with it. why am i discussing the issue of sefl-control? because i had done so much wrong today to another muslim. There was this non muslim girl who had mocked us so many times based on our religion and our culture. i was mad and angry at her that i had decided i would beat her up( not a good choice), so me and some others stood in front of her to beat her(not severely). now it's not just a simple thing she said. she mocked Allah and his prophet. anyways when i hit her once this muslim boy stood in front of me telling to stop. however i let out my anger at him, telling him that he was favoring sides and that he didn't care about who mocked Allah and who didn't. i came home, i got over my anger and i regretted what i had said to him (trust me, it was alot of bad words rolling out). i searched for where he lived and found him. i apologized and he accepted and told me that he didn't want me to get into trouble and that's why he had done what he did. well now i'm basically embarrassed and regret every word i had said to him. and if i could take it all back i would. my point is, regretting and being remorseful won't help when you've already hurt the person. we should think about what we are saying before we do so. I know that inshaAllah the next time something happens i will have more control because i've learned my lesson. and trust me i'm not done apologizing to the boy. i will apologize probably for the rest of the year until i can no longer see him in school. lol. that is why the prophet s.a.w told us to guard our tongues and our private parts.
Narrated Ammar: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: He who is two-faced in this world will have two tongues of fire on the Day of Resurrection. (Book #41, Hadith #4855)
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr: The Prophet said, "A Muslim is the one who avoids harming Muslims with his tongue and hands. And a Muhajir (emigrant) is the one who gives up (abandons) all what Allah has forbidden." (Book #2, Hadith #9)
Narrated Abu Musa: Some people asked Allah's Apostle, "Whose Islam is the best? i.e. (Who is a very good Muslim)?" He replied, "One who avoids harming the Muslims with his tongue and hands." (Book #2, Hadith #10)
Oh Muslims, i made a major mistake by harming a brother who only wished the best for me. so do not make the same mistakes i made. from this day forward i promise myself and Allah not to harm a muslim with my tongue or hands. and not to harm anyone with my tongue or body except in self defense. Asalamu alaykum wrwb and enjoy the following video.
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Narrated Ammar: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: He who is two-faced in this world will have two tongues of fire on the Day of Resurrection. (Book #41, Hadith #4855)
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr: The Prophet said, "A Muslim is the one who avoids harming Muslims with his tongue and hands. And a Muhajir (emigrant) is the one who gives up (abandons) all what Allah has forbidden." (Book #2, Hadith #9)
Narrated Abu Musa: Some people asked Allah's Apostle, "Whose Islam is the best? i.e. (Who is a very good Muslim)?" He replied, "One who avoids harming the Muslims with his tongue and hands." (Book #2, Hadith #10)
Oh Muslims, i made a major mistake by harming a brother who only wished the best for me. so do not make the same mistakes i made. from this day forward i promise myself and Allah not to harm a muslim with my tongue or hands. and not to harm anyone with my tongue or body except in self defense. Asalamu alaykum wrwb and enjoy the following video.
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