Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
Assalam alakum
If you can not explain your father/mother's relatives that you shouldnt shake hands nor hug with opposite gender while greeting, do you think its better not to go and visit them ?
I am not talking about your own uncle, aunt, cousins, grandparents but rather your ''fathers aunt'', your ''fathers cousins'', your ''fathers relatives'' etc. And sometimes when you go there, you can meet with other people as well who will greet you with shaking hand or hugging.
I know its very bad to cut relationship with relatives, we should visit them, we should take care of them and so on. But is this also applying my parents relatives ? And its not just them, but as i said, because that its Eid, when you go out of house with parents, you meet various people while visiting.
So what to do ? Should we try to go only mahram relatives ? Or in order to visit most of other relatives as well, should we just go and visit them and expect Allah to forgive us for other sins we might commit while there ? (Greeting opposite gender with shaking hand/hugging)
If you can not explain your father/mother's relatives that you shouldnt shake hands nor hug with opposite gender while greeting, do you think its better not to go and visit them ?
I am not talking about your own uncle, aunt, cousins, grandparents but rather your ''fathers aunt'', your ''fathers cousins'', your ''fathers relatives'' etc. And sometimes when you go there, you can meet with other people as well who will greet you with shaking hand or hugging.
I know its very bad to cut relationship with relatives, we should visit them, we should take care of them and so on. But is this also applying my parents relatives ? And its not just them, but as i said, because that its Eid, when you go out of house with parents, you meet various people while visiting.
So what to do ? Should we try to go only mahram relatives ? Or in order to visit most of other relatives as well, should we just go and visit them and expect Allah to forgive us for other sins we might commit while there ? (Greeting opposite gender with shaking hand/hugging)