OK....so I have a similar question that was brought to my attention from a non-muslim friend. If a man has 2 or 3 wives, is it permissible for him to engage in sexual activity with them at the same time? I know this is a bad question, but I could not answer it for them. I don't mean girl with girl , I mean all present but engaging with only him........is that considered homosexual activity. Please forgive if I offend but I genuinely wanted to have a good answer for this one. Yes the friend is a male co-worker and as such it is a very "male" question.
ASsalamoelaikoem warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,
Islam is very easy in understanding the rules. What is de purpose of his question? If i was you i would ignore this co-worker. I don't like to talk with people who ask this filty questions.
The answer is: Of course not, like i said before islam is very easy in understanding the rules.
Wassalamoelaikoem warahmatullahi wbarakatuh,
Salaam,
It took a lot of courage to ask this question. I am not a scholar. However, as a woman it stands to reason that marriage is private. In Islam each wife has her own apartment/house. The menage a trois would be prohibited as it a deviation from that which is permissible between husband and wife.
Sister, it is not fair for your co-worker to put a Muslim woman in such a position. Gently and slowly start distancing yourself from these men. They mean you no good. In any culture a man should not ask a married woman/mother questions regarding sex. Send him to the masjid.
Forgive me for sounding as if I am still on a high horse.