TruthSeeker17
New Member
i recently got exposed to islam by a fellow classmate and i got really into it....the thing is that i live in a society where sex is pretty much everywhere. It seriously is getting harder and harder to avoid it. I have many friends that are girls and its really really really really hard to avoid them not liking me. There are so many girls that want to date me and i know where its gonna go. Im not a muslim but i always think about the afterlife. Im not like many students, i wanted to see what islam had to offer. Its hard being a virgin until marriage especially if you are a guy. In this society its practically something to be ashamed of if you are a virgin. I just really dont feel like abstaining any longer. I feel like im missing out on so much. I get the usual answer from religious people. "Dont Do It!" But how can i not? its so unavoidable. Its human instinct. Its so hard to turn your back on human instinct its engraved in our minds. Other muslims say that Allah hates adultery the most out of all sins or something like that. Man its easier said that done...............DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR ME!?