Hi,
I am married about 2 years back and my life is not obedient to me. She never listens to my words and instead follow her mother words. I would give you few examples here. Once she had to attend an friends birthday party and I could not accompany her and hence asked to go with her family members and return home by 10 pm. I told her around ten times you need to be back home by 10 PM and she never bothered to be back and when I called her at 12 AM she was still in the party along with her mother and she even did not bother to call me. I explained her cooly that all this is wrong you need to listen to me. Second incident she went to look a match for her brother and did not inform me about it nor her family bothered to inform me. The same day I visted their place and to my surprise I found the door locked. When she came then I turned towards her house and asked where did you go she said I was at home. Later in her own words she told I went out to with my mother to select a girl for my brother and I asked why did you lie to me on that day and she says I did not feel it is important. Third incident when she was carrying she went to her mother house and I warned her and her mother that she should not go out in this stage and needs to be at home and if she goes out without my knowledge I would not accept it. She went out with her mother and her met with an small accident and even they were least bothered to inform me about it. I came to know later and shouted at them as I could not control my anger as it was her 9 month.
I never stop my life to go anywhere or meet her family and her mother is creating hell lot of problems to me. I once in anger also said "Talaq" god forgive me for this as I never new I should not say this word. I am still repenting for this.
I told my parents about this and even they are fed of her and her mother as her mother plays stupid jokes with my mother and we do not like to fight and have stopped visting her house. I am much worried of my baby boy who is 2 months old.
Could you please advice me how I can make my wife understand that after marriage you need to follow your husband or could you provide me an dua which will help me make my wife obedient. Please remember me in your dua's.
I am married about 2 years back and my life is not obedient to me. She never listens to my words and instead follow her mother words. I would give you few examples here. Once she had to attend an friends birthday party and I could not accompany her and hence asked to go with her family members and return home by 10 pm. I told her around ten times you need to be back home by 10 PM and she never bothered to be back and when I called her at 12 AM she was still in the party along with her mother and she even did not bother to call me. I explained her cooly that all this is wrong you need to listen to me. Second incident she went to look a match for her brother and did not inform me about it nor her family bothered to inform me. The same day I visted their place and to my surprise I found the door locked. When she came then I turned towards her house and asked where did you go she said I was at home. Later in her own words she told I went out to with my mother to select a girl for my brother and I asked why did you lie to me on that day and she says I did not feel it is important. Third incident when she was carrying she went to her mother house and I warned her and her mother that she should not go out in this stage and needs to be at home and if she goes out without my knowledge I would not accept it. She went out with her mother and her met with an small accident and even they were least bothered to inform me about it. I came to know later and shouted at them as I could not control my anger as it was her 9 month.
I never stop my life to go anywhere or meet her family and her mother is creating hell lot of problems to me. I once in anger also said "Talaq" god forgive me for this as I never new I should not say this word. I am still repenting for this.
I told my parents about this and even they are fed of her and her mother as her mother plays stupid jokes with my mother and we do not like to fight and have stopped visting her house. I am much worried of my baby boy who is 2 months old.
Could you please advice me how I can make my wife understand that after marriage you need to follow your husband or could you provide me an dua which will help me make my wife obedient. Please remember me in your dua's.
