islamisthesolution
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today i had the worest day ever at my work there was a nice lady sitting and taking her course with her trainer then her husband came and beated her infront of us all i was really shocked and i am still shocked wallahi from what i saw he throw her dignity on the floor and now what ?
isnt there a dignity btween a husband and his wife ?
i mean when a husband cheat on his wife or beat her or he is abusive in anyway she shouldnt do anything because there isnt a dignity between a husband and his wife . is this true ?
i mean she should take all the offence from her husband and just shut up because there is no dignity between them . if he doesnt respect her she suppose to take his abusive treatment and just sit like a chair at the house i really want to know ?
when i told mom she said that he doesnt deserve to be a husband and a father i am not going to tell what for was all this but this lady is really subjugated and oppressed .
i know there are kind people and respectable men but about these kinds of men what a woman should do ?
it really affected me and now i know that there are alot of things that i am not aware of but i still believe that there must be a respect and dignity between married couples or everything will fall apart and the first thing will be their kids.
what if the kids were there actually the kids came and the lady held them and she was crying and her family came and his family it was really horrible and tragic thing to watch and the image of her while she was beating by this savage person is in my head and i think it wont be removed .
i really didnt know the world has so much evil like that and its devastating to see such a thing . i never imagined so much violence like this i mean i know that the world isnt a safe place but i guess this when the husband role comes as he supposed to protect his family not to insult her on public .
i am sorry for disturbing you but i am really down and to all the married couples please respect eachother and follow the islamic instructions in your life and you will never be lost and try hard to stay away from satatn and his mean ways .
salaam alaikom
today i had the worest day ever at my work there was a nice lady sitting and taking her course with her trainer then her husband came and beated her infront of us all i was really shocked and i am still shocked wallahi from what i saw he throw her dignity on the floor and now what ?
isnt there a dignity btween a husband and his wife ?
i mean when a husband cheat on his wife or beat her or he is abusive in anyway she shouldnt do anything because there isnt a dignity between a husband and his wife . is this true ?
i mean she should take all the offence from her husband and just shut up because there is no dignity between them . if he doesnt respect her she suppose to take his abusive treatment and just sit like a chair at the house i really want to know ?
when i told mom she said that he doesnt deserve to be a husband and a father i am not going to tell what for was all this but this lady is really subjugated and oppressed .
i know there are kind people and respectable men but about these kinds of men what a woman should do ?
it really affected me and now i know that there are alot of things that i am not aware of but i still believe that there must be a respect and dignity between married couples or everything will fall apart and the first thing will be their kids.
what if the kids were there actually the kids came and the lady held them and she was crying and her family came and his family it was really horrible and tragic thing to watch and the image of her while she was beating by this savage person is in my head and i think it wont be removed .
i really didnt know the world has so much evil like that and its devastating to see such a thing . i never imagined so much violence like this i mean i know that the world isnt a safe place but i guess this when the husband role comes as he supposed to protect his family not to insult her on public .
i am sorry for disturbing you but i am really down and to all the married couples please respect eachother and follow the islamic instructions in your life and you will never be lost and try hard to stay away from satatn and his mean ways .
salaam alaikom