salam walaikum w
i have something to say!!!!!!!
it really make me feel really sad of the situation now days subhanah Allah!
i Used to live in london were i became muslim 8 years ago and for the las 5 years i was looking for a wife
You know what?
5 years looking for a sister and i indeed met many sister masha'allah very nice.... but at the end even if they were ok with me they neglect me becose i didnt had a resident or british papers
it was never about me been neglected becose personality or Eeman but becose my situation.
its incredible, i wasnt illigal at all.
i was with a full time student visa and i had a really good job, i even was working for a islamic org.
but hey i wasnt british... i didnt have the rigth status and that hurts as muslim!
more over, i wasnt paki, nither malay, nither indian, nor arab etc.
i undertand sisters or families feel afraid of this but came on since when is this discrimination is something islamic?
isnt islamic, not to be suspicios of another muslim? actually we should trust our brothers and sisters and more over trust Allah subhanah wata'allah?
i didnt got another visa and i left my islamic studies in the midle, and i had to come back to my mother land wich i dont regret ither but i realy feel that there is something really bad happening with the ummah in so call first world cuntries.
why are they guarding this thing of papers as if were the bigest tresure? why sisters seem so terrorise as soon some one dont have a british pasport o usa pasport? its is a crime?
maybe u could thing of the Baraka u would gain providing a hand for a brother or sister who has the real intention of getting married for Allahs sake.
just look around and see how many brothers and sisters are singles? and that argument of hey i dont marry him becose maybe he could just been looking for papers its not from Islam! that is been suspicious! and is haram
and besides whats rong with wanting to have a residence in a place were u can have a potencial wife?
i been told hey whay u dont get a wife in your home land... i also will reply hey here i can count the muslims with the fingers of my hand.
but dont take me rong i belive in kadar and what will be it will be insha'allah.
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but the way i still looking but now i'm delegated to internet ..what would it be my chances? lol i dont think so!
insha'allah hope i have soon the oportunity to go to a muslim cuntry like Yemen, morroco etc and maybe there i will find a humble sister to marry and less westernise.
salam walaikum.