:salam2: brothers and sisters,
i would like to discuss the topic of polygamie...
i ve been really happy with my husband but now he told me that he has contact with a girl (only on internet) who he wanted to marry before he got married to me..but for some reasons he didnt as his parents wouldnt accept it..so he decided to marry someone his parents would accept.. and he realised that he loves the two of us and is thinking of getting married to her aswell... he gave me the option to re-consider if i can live with it...if not i could leave him.. but he would be hurt if i did...
he takes good care of me and i know he has the right to get married more than once... but there is no fault in me..im doing everything to my best ability to be a good wife and always do what he wishes...and he told me the same that its his fault but he cant leave that other woman..and that he cant see that she will end up alone because she already agreed to become his second wife and dont want to marry someone else...
what could i do in such a situation? accept it?
is it halal for him to get married just because he has feelings for her aswell although he got a wife who takes care of him and doesnt disappoint him (or atleast try not to)... i mean if i was not able to get children or would disobey him or he wouldnt be satisfied with me then i could accept his decision..but right now i just feel helpless... because everytime we talk about this topic he says that Allah gave him this right of second marriage and i should accept it if he can take care of both of us equally... and i cant say anything to him...
i would like to discuss the topic of polygamie...
i ve been really happy with my husband but now he told me that he has contact with a girl (only on internet) who he wanted to marry before he got married to me..but for some reasons he didnt as his parents wouldnt accept it..so he decided to marry someone his parents would accept.. and he realised that he loves the two of us and is thinking of getting married to her aswell... he gave me the option to re-consider if i can live with it...if not i could leave him.. but he would be hurt if i did...
he takes good care of me and i know he has the right to get married more than once... but there is no fault in me..im doing everything to my best ability to be a good wife and always do what he wishes...and he told me the same that its his fault but he cant leave that other woman..and that he cant see that she will end up alone because she already agreed to become his second wife and dont want to marry someone else...
what could i do in such a situation? accept it?
is it halal for him to get married just because he has feelings for her aswell although he got a wife who takes care of him and doesnt disappoint him (or atleast try not to)... i mean if i was not able to get children or would disobey him or he wouldnt be satisfied with me then i could accept his decision..but right now i just feel helpless... because everytime we talk about this topic he says that Allah gave him this right of second marriage and i should accept it if he can take care of both of us equally... and i cant say anything to him...