Polygyny:A Blessing in Disguise

[esperanza]

Euphemism is a substitution for an expression that may offend or suggest something unpleasant to the receiver, using instead an agreeable or less offensive expression,[1] or to make it less troublesome for the speaker.
Some euphemisms are intended to amuse, while others are created to mislead.


what's your point?




I never said i'm interested in 4 wives nor i'm pretending to be all islamic throwing a few islamic words here and there and pretending to give naseeha on islamic adaabs while doing so in such a lacking manner.

just a quick point...i will write more later...but where do you get 30 million spinsters in saudi arabia..the population of saudi is not 30 million ..so how many women are there,,,yes there are many unmarried,,,one major reason ..women are beocmimng more independent earning more money,,,the men cant give them life they need,just to think about for now

 

[Astrugglingsoul]

Do you know how many muslim women there are that don't' know how to close their legs? they wear hijab and yet they have videos online having sex with their bfs? Do you know how many good bros are out there who can't even marry a hijabi because she maybe a wh*re? Should i say all muslim women are like that today and forget them cuz its same as marry kuffar woman? in fact it may be safer to marry kufar woman?


really? what was your point to say those disgraceful things?
my point is very clear now. you are being arrogant. an arrogant person neither can't take someone else's advice nor can stop arguing. you are arguing for no reason actually. in previous posts it is already been cleared that most of the members of this forum live in countries where polygamy is illegal. second it is extremely difficult to afford more than one family nowadays. and even if it is affordable most men can't treat every women the same. that's it. we also understand your point. that islam allowed polygamy. then why are you attacking the sisters? i think in this forum people argue more than they seek knowledge.

 

[islamirama]

I"m sorry, it seems i'm lacking in manners. Here let me add a few things that will make it all better. Then my posts won't be all that different than others.


Dear sister,

inshallah, bismillah audibillah, Jazakallaahu khay, astagfurallah,Wa 'iyaadhu billaah, Fii Amaanillaah!


there, are we all good now?

 

[ShahnazZ]

The wise thing for them to do would be to delete all posts after post #7. But you go ahead, i've said nothing of the sort you cry about.

Oh I'm sorry, was that crying? Clearly you have zero respect for women if you deduce their words to "crying". Webster's Dictionary should be able to shed some light on the term for you.

Seriously. Have some class. That's what Muslims have in case you didn't get the memo.

 

[islamirama]

really? what was your point to say those disgraceful things?
my point is very clear now. you are being arrogant. an arrogant person neither can't take someone else's advice nor can stop arguing. you are arguing for no reason actually. in previous posts it is already been cleared that most of the members of this forum live in countries where polygamy is illegal. second it is extremely difficult to afford more than one family nowadays. and even if it is affordable most men can't treat every women the same. that's it. we also understand your point. that islam allowed polygamy. then why are you attacking the sisters? i think in this forum people argue more than they seed knowledge.

What was the point? Isn't it obvious? there are lot of zina muslimash out there and they are just like i said they are. That is not being disgraceful, that is talking hard facts and reality. if you or people here are too naive to believe or see that then sorry for you. Secondly, it has nothing to do with arrogant. The whole point of throwing that out there was cuz somebody here kept on babbling about how bad men are, generalizing how no one is fit to have more than wives and we are not prophets. If you going to generalize and bad mouth the whole male race, know that not all "muslimash" out there are angels. maybe the "sisters" here need to learn to stop generalizing and male bashing if they want some respect. it's something you earn and you won't get it thinking all men are horn dogs and want polygyny for one reason and so we the "women" decide it is not "needed" today.

 

[islamirama]

Seriously. Have some class. That's what Muslims have in case you didn't get the memo.

right back at ya kido!

 

[MohammedMaksudul]

:salam2:

Lets not fight, insha Allah. What Allah has made halaal, is halaal. If there were problems, Allah would have made it haraam, just like alcohol.

There are brothers who can afford. If somebody can afford and meet all the conditions then, there should be no problem. A brother who is a muslim, is fully aware that his reckoning is with Allaah and he will be accountable for what he does. But that does not mean by taking a second wife the brother instantly sins. And about comparing to Rasul , no body is saying that we are comparable to him but he is an example for us. So is the best of generations (Salf-e-Saliheen). I think this varies situation to situation, so let us not generalize. A man with multiple wives may live in happiness and at the same time also may have problems. I had a relative (he passed away) who had 2 wives, and Alhamduli-Allah I see how all his children were brought up with love and care in the same house-hold. Both of his wives used to be in the same house with separate quarters. And besides in the time of Rasul , they did not give their wives separate fully furnished apartments, their houses used to be very simple.

 

[ShahnazZ]

right back at ya kido!

Great comeback. No really. You sure showed me.

 

[islamirama]

:salam2:

Lets not fight, insha Allah. What Allah has made halaal, is halaal. If there were problems, Allah would have made it haraam, just like alcohol.

There are brothers who can afford. If somebody can afford and meet all the conditions then, there should be no problem. A brother who is a muslim, is fully aware that his reckoning is with Allaah and he will be accountable for what he does. But that does not mean by taking a second wife the brother instantly sins. And about comparing to Rasul , no body is saying that we are comparable to him but he is an example for us. So is the best of generations (Salf-e-Saliheen). I think this varies situation to situation, so let us not generalize. A man with multiple wives may live in happiness and at the same time also may have problems. I had a relative (he passed away) who had 2 wives, and Alhamduli-Allah I see how all his children were brought up with love and care in the same house-hold. Both of his wives used to be in the same house with separate quarters. And besides in the time of Rasul , they did not give their wives separate fully furnished apartments, their houses used to be very simple.

Alhamdulilalh, someone with right understanding of this topic.

Most women really need to stop taking the whole idea of polygyny so personally. If it's not for you then don't do it, but don't go dictating to the world you know better than Allah. Go back and watch those khalid yasin's video....

 

[MohammedMaksudul]

Alhamdulilalh, someone with right understanding of this topic.

Most women really need to stop taking the whole idea of polygyny so personally. If it's not for you then don't do it, but don't go dictating to the world you know better than Allah. Go back and watch those khalid yasin's video....

Brother, i think you should address the sisters more politely. Even if there are differences in our opinion, we should be humble. One of the characteristics of slave of Ar-Rahman is that they are always humble, even when addressing situations which they do not like. Do not take this personally brother, just a brotherly advice.

 

[your-sister]

Brother, aftet you get banned, I hope you still continue to remember these words..

1)"ASSUMPTION leads to NO good!" And 2) "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all!" but mostly, 3)"Allaah is all-Knowing, ever watchful!"

1- Among many other things, you're now assuming I'm young. Have you any proof of that? I could be old enough to be your mother for all you know... Please get your facts straight!
2-Most of your posts(besides maybe the first 2) contain nothing but nonsense and words that even the jaahiliyyaahs would not use.. Silence is a virtue!
3-I'm not sure if you only act this way when online(sitting behind a comp screen) or if you're also like this in real life but don't forget Allaah and His abilities..

*If only you knew the importance and the significance those words you accuse me of just "throwing around" held... I haven't used them in this post seeing as they bother you so much...

 

[islamirama]

Brother, i think you should address the sisters more politely. Even if there are differences in our opinion, we should be humble. One of the characteristics of slave of Ar-Rahman is that they are always humble, even when addressing situations which they do not like. Do not take this personally brother, just a brotherly advice.

thanks bro, i'll keep that in mind inshallah. I won't bother reading other ban happy hypocrites.