Assalaam walaikum,
Hello people..I am as usaul on Planet Solo...we are talking about a Muslim woman and her virtue. Hello.
The son has assumed she has commited a major sin. It is the assumption that has me concerned.
This lets us know several things:
Here I go..thread will be closed in a few minutes:
We know the young man is upset with his mother. We know they are divorced. So is the issue deeper than what he is letting on. Has he taken the patriarchal role. We know from his own words his siblings seem to have a better understanding of what the mother has done. So the issue is not that the mother is sinning ..but that the young man is now in a position to humiliate his mother. As he is not able to get the majority opinion to satisfy his need he comes to forum and asks for opinion until he gets the ones he can use to chastise her.
This is very common with children of divorce. Many have repressed issues of anger and they surge at the strangest times.
We are discussing a woman and her very private life. No god-fearing woman, let alone a Believing woman is going to let a man come into her bedroom. It is not done. Ladies do not do that. If this woman is a Muslim and she makes salat and has raised a son who is Muslim..that should give us a clue that something is ok in the picture.
Now, we do not know why the poster has issues with his siblings, his mothers "friend" and the mother...but we sit back we get a picture of a man who has issues with all members of his family.
Sister Shahnaz..let me put it this way..in the world of the kufr the word anonymous and confidential imply that the person is safe and behind the screen..we are Muslims..we discuss knowing what we write and think are recorded.
I once again on Planet Solo..have concerns about a young man who admittedly is having difficulty in communicating with all significant others around him.
So, are you jealous that your mother has a life of her own...does a mother have to to explain her life to her children..
No...she is grown. And if she is sinning ..the only choice he has is to leave the house..so either way it is time for him to leave the luxury of the nest and become a man.
The apron string needs to be cut is the issue. Is this really what we want Muslim men to do..shame on us. Shame on us...every single one of us..Shame shame shame..
I am so upset...to blame your mother...I know kufr men that kiss their mothers feet.
Son..do you not know Paradise lies at your mothers feet and you have the gall to write this about your mother..shame on you.
Be mad at me..be mad at me...this is the woman who gave birth to you in pain..have you no heart..did it occur to you that she may have carried pain so deep to keep your tummy filled until you were grown and you do not have the decency to respect what she sacrificed for you. Shame on you.
Is this what we pride ourselves with..having a discussion about a boy's who thinks his mother is sinning..what does that say about him...
I am done.
Hello people..I am as usaul on Planet Solo...we are talking about a Muslim woman and her virtue. Hello.
The son has assumed she has commited a major sin. It is the assumption that has me concerned.
This lets us know several things:
Here I go..thread will be closed in a few minutes:
We know the young man is upset with his mother. We know they are divorced. So is the issue deeper than what he is letting on. Has he taken the patriarchal role. We know from his own words his siblings seem to have a better understanding of what the mother has done. So the issue is not that the mother is sinning ..but that the young man is now in a position to humiliate his mother. As he is not able to get the majority opinion to satisfy his need he comes to forum and asks for opinion until he gets the ones he can use to chastise her.
This is very common with children of divorce. Many have repressed issues of anger and they surge at the strangest times.
We are discussing a woman and her very private life. No god-fearing woman, let alone a Believing woman is going to let a man come into her bedroom. It is not done. Ladies do not do that. If this woman is a Muslim and she makes salat and has raised a son who is Muslim..that should give us a clue that something is ok in the picture.
Now, we do not know why the poster has issues with his siblings, his mothers "friend" and the mother...but we sit back we get a picture of a man who has issues with all members of his family.
Sister Shahnaz..let me put it this way..in the world of the kufr the word anonymous and confidential imply that the person is safe and behind the screen..we are Muslims..we discuss knowing what we write and think are recorded.
I once again on Planet Solo..have concerns about a young man who admittedly is having difficulty in communicating with all significant others around him.
So, are you jealous that your mother has a life of her own...does a mother have to to explain her life to her children..
No...she is grown. And if she is sinning ..the only choice he has is to leave the house..so either way it is time for him to leave the luxury of the nest and become a man.
The apron string needs to be cut is the issue. Is this really what we want Muslim men to do..shame on us. Shame on us...every single one of us..Shame shame shame..
I am so upset...to blame your mother...I know kufr men that kiss their mothers feet.
Son..do you not know Paradise lies at your mothers feet and you have the gall to write this about your mother..shame on you.
Be mad at me..be mad at me...this is the woman who gave birth to you in pain..have you no heart..did it occur to you that she may have carried pain so deep to keep your tummy filled until you were grown and you do not have the decency to respect what she sacrificed for you. Shame on you.
Is this what we pride ourselves with..having a discussion about a boy's who thinks his mother is sinning..what does that say about him...
I am done.