Congragulations dear sister Aapa..your contributions are well appreciated!
Dear brothers and sisters..To help prevent misunderstandings and arguments, can I suggest that if one sees a post which might come across as rude, (unintentionally), to PM the poster, reflecting that to them and advising sincerely . Probably that way the poster might decide to make admendments, and clarify. Also, there might be less of the defence and attack that is going on between members.. Brothers and sisters we need to apologise to each other when we feel that we may have wronged one another so things do not keep escalating..Prophet pbuh says: And be servants of God and brothers" ...
134 Those who spend (benevolently) in ease as well as in straightness, and those who restrain (their) anger and pardon men; and Allah loves the doers of good (to others). Aal-e-Imran, Chapter #3, Verse #134